just a thought. i have a family and a couple of friends, but they dont know me, and never will. I dont care what anyone says about me, even if its a complement. they dont know that, they just think they do...
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geez way to depress me.
how ever it's abviously not that bad
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i'm independent but not like that
i've got plenty of good friends and a few close family members that i talk to a lot
but when it comes to like doing stuff (classwork, chores, that kind of stuff) i like doing it by myself
it's some sort of pride issue i have
i like being able to take all of the credit for something so if someone has to help me then that ruins it

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rufflebee wrote:
i'm independent but not like that
i've got plenty of good friends and a few close family members that i talk to a lot
but when it comes to like doing stuff (classwork, chores, that kind of stuff) i like doing it by myself
That's pretty much what I would say...
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rufflebee wrote:
i'm independent but not like that
i've got plenty of good friends and a few close family members that i talk to a lot
but when it comes to like doing stuff (classwork, chores, that kind of stuff) i like doing it by myself
it's some sort of pride issue i have
i like being able to take all of the credit for something so if someone has to help me then that ruins it
i like taking all credit for interesting stuff, but chroes im more than happy to split
and obviously the person has over-exaggerated
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soupoftomato wrote:
rufflebee wrote:
i'm independent but not like that
i've got plenty of good friends and a few close family members that i talk to a lot
but when it comes to like doing stuff (classwork, chores, that kind of stuff) i like doing it by myself
it's some sort of pride issue i have
i like being able to take all of the credit for something so if someone has to help me then that ruins iti like taking all credit for interesting stuff, but chroes im more than happy to split
and obviously the person has over-exaggerated
if im "the person", then no... ive felt this way for a long time...
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AnimeCreatorArtist wrote:
soupoftomato wrote:
rufflebee wrote:
i'm independent but not like that
i've got plenty of good friends and a few close family members that i talk to a lot
but when it comes to like doing stuff (classwork, chores, that kind of stuff) i like doing it by myself
it's some sort of pride issue i have
i like being able to take all of the credit for something so if someone has to help me then that ruins iti like taking all credit for interesting stuff, but chroes im more than happy to split
and obviously the person has over-exaggeratedif im "the person", then no... ive felt this way for a long time...
still exaggerating
your family loves and why would they be your friends if they felt like they weren't allowed into your life?
if that doesn;t help:therapy, the sooner the better
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soupoftomato wrote:
AnimeCreatorArtist wrote:
soupoftomato wrote:
i like taking all credit for interesting stuff, but chroes im more than happy to split
and obviously the person has over-exaggeratedif im "the person", then no... ive felt this way for a long time...
still exaggerating
your family loves and why would they be your friends if they felt like they weren't allowed into your life?
if that doesn;t help:therapy, the sooner the better
first off, i never said my family didnt love me, i said they didnt know me, and my friends dont feel that way, they simply dont know either.
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AnimeCreatorArtist wrote:
soupoftomato wrote:
AnimeCreatorArtist wrote:
if im "the person", then no... ive felt this way for a long time...still exaggerating
your family loves and why would they be your friends if they felt like they weren't allowed into your life?
if that doesn;t help:therapy, the sooner the betterfirst off, i never said my family didnt love me, i said they didnt know me, and my friends dont feel that way, they simply dont know either.
then: therapy, the sooner the better
or maybe you should try reaching out to them instead of waiting for them to reach out to you.
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AnimeCreatorArtist wrote:
soupoftomato wrote:
AnimeCreatorArtist wrote:
if im "the person", then no... ive felt this way for a long time...still exaggerating
your family loves and why would they be your friends if they felt like they weren't allowed into your life?
if that doesn;t help:therapy, the sooner the betterfirst off, i never said my family didnt love me, i said they didnt know me, and my friends dont feel that way, they simply dont know either.
Hello? They love and know you, they obviously just don't understand you.
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AnimeCreatorArtist wrote:
soupoftomato wrote:
rufflebee wrote:
i'm independent but not like that
i've got plenty of good friends and a few close family members that i talk to a lot
but when it comes to like doing stuff (classwork, chores, that kind of stuff) i like doing it by myself
it's some sort of pride issue i have
i like being able to take all of the credit for something so if someone has to help me then that ruins iti like taking all credit for interesting stuff, but chroes im more than happy to split
and obviously the person has over-exaggeratedif im "the person", then no... ive felt this way for a long time...
Felt? Oh that doesn't mean its true.

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You are not independant until you are not...
1) Living with someone else who pays for your house (with or without you helping them pay)
2) Depending on someone else for an allowance or payment
3) Using another's good or services without pay
Yet, everyone is still dependent in a way, because even if you have your own house that you pay for and your own job that gives you money to pay for your food and necessities, we still need someone to build our house, farm any food we eat, weave or sew the clothes we wear, and invent the things we use everyday.
Well, unless of course, you plan to be a logger/architect/construction worker/farmer/seamtress/inventor/woodworker.
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i'm independent but i have friends and family and stuff
but my family is annoying and like half of my friends invite me over the others ignore me pfft
don't ask why they're even my friends
//but anyways yeah i hate to do group projects even with good pals because they mess everything i do up or say my ideas are stupid

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i guess i hate working in groups cause everyone will conflict my ideas and try to take charge, i like being in charge.
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AnimeCreatorArtist wrote:
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I may be wrong, but this one part of the post makes it seem like a cry for attention.
If you think your parents don't know you, get off the computer and talk to them.
Edit: You seem to be saying that you act differently than you feel. Uh, why?
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AnimeCreatorArtist wrote:
soupoftomato wrote:
AnimeCreatorArtist wrote:
if im "the person", then no... ive felt this way for a long time...still exaggerating
your family loves and why would they be your friends if they felt like they weren't allowed into your life?
if that doesn;t help:therapy, the sooner the betterfirst off, i never said my family didnt love me, i said they didnt know me, and my friends dont feel that way, they simply dont know either.
Didn't you say you're parents beat you at one point in a topic you made that got closed?

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