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#1 2011-03-16 13:28:33

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Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

This is a long story cut short. For clarification on anything, ask.  smile

Well, basically; my friend [I'll call her K for now] is assuming that she annoys me for some reason. She says that she is no longer close friends with [J, one of my other best friends] and I am irritated by her.
I'm seriously not! She's got it totally wrong, and the last time I pointed out that she had misunderstood or got the wrong gist, she bit my head off.
I've been a bit UGH all day, I busted my good knee when we had to run cross country (in a blazer and with a dodged-up ankle) and apparently I'm going to have to do our Comic Relief project alone. You get the picture. I didn't aim my slight irritation at life AT HER.
Now she's texted [M, my OTHER best friend, also close to K] saying this exactly: 'well im not reali close to J no more nd its ded obvious [ME!] is annoyed by me nd its s****y at home 2 so :'('
When we walked to the bus stop me and Jak (my BF) kept asking what was wrong. I guess that's why she wouldn't tell, she thinks I hate her. She even left me at the bus stop when the first bus came along to get away from me. She just kept saying 'GO AWAY!'
I left her alone for a bit but J is oblivious and I feel like it's all my fault, even though I haven't done anything and I still like her. K has even stopped texting M, and she still likes M.

Advice on what to say/do? I have to pick her up in the morning...  hmm

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#2 2011-03-16 13:30:45

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

Probably let her cool down. But always show that you care, just not gonna push her.

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#3 2011-03-16 13:32:59

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

Thanks for the quick reply! I'm texting M, and she said K texted her saying: 'yeah i jus gotta b on ma own gtg'

Then she left.

Then again, K is famed for overreacting. :S

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#4 2011-03-16 13:39:03

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Thanks for the quick reply! I'm texting M, and she said K texted her saying: 'yeah i jus gotta b on ma own gtg'

Then she left.

Then again, K is famed for overreacting. :S

You're welcome, ChocoDonut  smile

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#5 2011-03-16 13:49:56

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

ProgrammingFreak wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Thanks for the quick reply! I'm texting M, and she said K texted her saying: 'yeah i jus gotta b on ma own gtg'

Then she left.

Then again, K is famed for overreacting. :S

You're welcome, ChocoDonut  smile

Teehee, daFreak!
Well, this story just gets more and more annoying.
This is exactly why I find it hard to trust people.
Yep, I'm on my one for Comic Relief. They don't wanna do it.
God, they're so selfish, after I've sorted it out, got £35 of sponsor money, had my mom stitcha whole custom blazer, etc. etc.  mad


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#6 2011-03-16 13:56:45

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

ProgrammingFreak wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Thanks for the quick reply! I'm texting M, and she said K texted her saying: 'yeah i jus gotta b on ma own gtg'

Then she left.

Then again, K is famed for overreacting. :S

You're welcome, ChocoDonut  smile

Teehee, daFreak!
Well, this story just gets more and more annoying.
This is exactly why I find it hard to trust people.
Yep, I'm on my one for Comic Relief. They don't wanna do it.
God, they're so selfish, after I've sorted it out, got £35 of sponsor money, had my mom stitcha whole custom blazer, etc. etc.  mad

Well that stinks. Wish I could help ya.  wink

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#7 2011-03-16 14:20:03

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

ProgrammingFreak wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

ProgrammingFreak wrote:


You're welcome, ChocoDonut  smile

Teehee, daFreak!
Well, this story just gets more and more annoying.
This is exactly why I find it hard to trust people.
Yep, I'm on my one for Comic Relief. They don't wanna do it.
God, they're so selfish, after I've sorted it out, got £35 of sponsor money, had my mom stitcha whole custom blazer, etc. etc.  mad

Well that stinks. Wish I could help ya.  wink

Thanks  smile  It's like a TV soap! I've talked to M, and she never said that she didn't want to do the Comic Relief thing, so J might be lying to  me...  hmm  K's okay with me now though, she knows I was annoyed at everything but her  tongue


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#8 2011-03-16 14:26:44

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

ProgrammingFreak wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:


Teehee, daFreak!
Well, this story just gets more and more annoying.
This is exactly why I find it hard to trust people.
Yep, I'm on my one for Comic Relief. They don't wanna do it.
God, they're so selfish, after I've sorted it out, got £35 of sponsor money, had my mom stitcha whole custom blazer, etc. etc.  mad

Well that stinks. Wish I could help ya.  wink

Thanks  smile  It's like a TV soap! I've talked to M, and she never said that she didn't want to do the Comic Relief thing, so J might be lying to  me...  hmm  K's okay with me now though, she knows I was annoyed at everything but her  tongue

Well thats good.  smile

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#9 2011-03-16 14:38:36

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

ProgrammingFreak wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

ProgrammingFreak wrote:


Well that stinks. Wish I could help ya.  wink

Thanks  smile  It's like a TV soap! I've talked to M, and she never said that she didn't want to do the Comic Relief thing, so J might be lying to  me...  hmm  K's okay with me now though, she knows I was annoyed at everything but her  tongue

Well thats good.  smile

smile  I guess... but now I'm worried about K. She just said that she's considered killing herself, she said: 'there's nout to live for no more bab'

I bet shes just being a bit OTT, but let'snot go into detail on a kid's programming website. I might call Childline for her... Cheddargirl, I need your awesome advice!  tongue


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#10 2011-03-16 14:41:22

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

ProgrammingFreak wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:


Thanks  smile  It's like a TV soap! I've talked to M, and she never said that she didn't want to do the Comic Relief thing, so J might be lying to  me...  hmm  K's okay with me now though, she knows I was annoyed at everything but her  tongue

Well thats good.  smile

smile  I guess... but now I'm worried about K. She just said that she's considered killing herself, she said: 'there's nout to live for no more bab'

I bet shes just being a bit OTT, but let'snot go into detail on a kid's programming website. I might call Childline for her... Cheddargirl, I need your awesome advice!  tongue

lol. Well I hope she doesn't kill herself!  yikes

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#11 2011-03-16 14:47:47

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

Hm, I doubt she will, but I'll mention Childline to her. Things aren't great at home for her.  hmm

Well, at least most of the crisis is over...  smile

And thanks daFreak for your advice!  big_smile  It's kinda comforting!!


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#12 2011-03-16 15:14:09

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Hm, I doubt she will, but I'll mention Childline to her. Things aren't great at home for her.  hmm

Well, at least most of the crisis is over...  smile

And thanks daFreak for your advice!  big_smile  It's kinda comforting!!

big_smile  You're welcome! So should this be closed?

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#13 2011-03-16 15:25:54

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

Just preteen drama
By the way, you say she(?) thinks she(?) annoys you, and you said you're irritated by her(?). That makes her(?) right


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#14 2011-03-16 15:39:22

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

Blade-Edge wrote:

Just preteen drama
By the way, you say she(?) thinks she(?) annoys you, and you said you're irritated by her(?). That makes her(?) right

1. We are teens
2. She doesn't irritate me, where did I say that?

This is why I often hang with boys.


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#15 2011-03-16 16:42:05

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

I am irritated by her.

And how old are you


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#16 2011-03-16 18:17:54

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Eat both of them. Problems are solved.


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#17 2011-03-17 11:00:55

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Blade-Edge wrote:

Just preteen drama
By the way, you say she(?) thinks she(?) annoys you, and you said you're irritated by her(?). That makes her(?) right

1. We are teens
2. She doesn't irritate me, where did I say that?

This is why I often hang with boys.

Wait... You're saying that YOU are a boy? Or you are a girl, and hang out with boys because they aren't so dumb like some girls. Unlike me, and you, if you are one... Some girls would FREAK OUT if this was happening to them, they would end up enemy's for life...

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#18 2011-03-17 13:45:47

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

Maygenr wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Blade-Edge wrote:

Just preteen drama
By the way, you say she(?) thinks she(?) annoys you, and you said you're irritated by her(?). That makes her(?) right

1. We are teens
2. She doesn't irritate me, where did I say that?

This is why I often hang with boys.

Wait... You're saying that YOU are a boy? Or you are a girl, and hang out with boys because they aren't so dumb like some girls. Unlike me, and you, if you are one... Some girls would FREAK OUT if this was happening to them, they would end up enemy's for life...

I'm a girl that realises how mean other girls can be. I'm not really FREAKING OUT, I'm pretty much keeping my cool - it'll all sort itself out in a few days.

@blade - What post did you find that from? I mean her attitude was a bit annoying, but I'm not annoyed at HER literally as a person.
And I'm 13  tongue  HA

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#19 2011-03-20 03:42:07

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

ProgrammingFreak wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:


Thanks  smile  It's like a TV soap! I've talked to M, and she never said that she didn't want to do the Comic Relief thing, so J might be lying to  me...  hmm  K's okay with me now though, she knows I was annoyed at everything but her  tongue

Well thats good.  smile

smile  I guess... but now I'm worried about K. She just said that she's considered killing herself, she said: 'there's nout to live for no more bab'

I bet shes just being a bit OTT, but let'snot go into detail on a kid's programming website. I might call Childline for her... Cheddargirl, I need your awesome advice!  tongue

Geez, I'm away for a few days days to take care of some stuff in my personal life and already I get people asking me for help during my leave.  hmm

From the looks of this thread, though, everything has more or less sorted itself out?


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#20 2011-03-20 03:47:05

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

cheddargirl wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

ProgrammingFreak wrote:

Well thats good.  smile

smile  I guess... but now I'm worried about K. She just said that she's considered killing herself, she said: 'there's nout to live for no more bab'

I bet shes just being a bit OTT, but let'snot go into detail on a kid's programming website. I might call Childline for her... Cheddargirl, I need your awesome advice!  tongue

Geez, I'm away for a few days days to take care of some stuff in my personal life and already I get people asking me for help during my leave.  hmm

From the looks of this thread, though, everything has more or less sorted itself out?

People like a little cheddar to spice up their posts.


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#21 2011-03-21 15:03:23

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Re: Friends these days man! I need advice! NOW! =O

cheddargirl wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

ProgrammingFreak wrote:


Well thats good.  smile

smile  I guess... but now I'm worried about K. She just said that she's considered killing herself, she said: 'there's nout to live for no more bab'

I bet shes just being a bit OTT, but let'snot go into detail on a kid's programming website. I might call Childline for her... Cheddargirl, I need your awesome advice!  tongue

Geez, I'm away for a few days days to take care of some stuff in my personal life and already I get people asking me for help during my leave.  hmm

From the looks of this thread, though, everything has more or less sorted itself out?

Sorry!  hmm

It's still dead awkward, but pretty much okay...


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