This is a long story cut short. For clarification on anything, ask.
Well, basically; my friend [I'll call her K for now] is assuming that she annoys me for some reason. She says that she is no longer close friends with [J, one of my other best friends] and I am irritated by her.
I'm seriously not! She's got it totally wrong, and the last time I pointed out that she had misunderstood or got the wrong gist, she bit my head off.
I've been a bit UGH all day, I busted my good knee when we had to run cross country (in a blazer and with a dodged-up ankle) and apparently I'm going to have to do our Comic Relief project alone. You get the picture. I didn't aim my slight irritation at life AT HER.
Now she's texted [M, my OTHER best friend, also close to K] saying this exactly: 'well im not reali close to J no more nd its ded obvious [ME!] is annoyed by me nd its s****y at home 2 so :'('
When we walked to the bus stop me and Jak (my BF) kept asking what was wrong. I guess that's why she wouldn't tell, she thinks I hate her. She even left me at the bus stop when the first bus came along to get away from me. She just kept saying 'GO AWAY!'
I left her alone for a bit but J is oblivious and I feel like it's all my fault, even though I haven't done anything and I still like her. K has even stopped texting M, and she still likes M.
Advice on what to say/do? I have to pick her up in the morning...
Last edited by The_Dancing_Donut (2011-03-16 13:31:33)
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Probably let her cool down. But always show that you care, just not gonna push her.
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Thanks for the quick reply! I'm texting M, and she said K texted her saying: 'yeah i jus gotta b on ma own gtg'
Then she left.
Then again, K is famed for overreacting. :S
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The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
Thanks for the quick reply! I'm texting M, and she said K texted her saying: 'yeah i jus gotta b on ma own gtg'
Then she left.
Then again, K is famed for overreacting. :S
You're welcome, ChocoDonut
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ProgrammingFreak wrote:
The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
Thanks for the quick reply! I'm texting M, and she said K texted her saying: 'yeah i jus gotta b on ma own gtg'
Then she left.
Then again, K is famed for overreacting. :SYou're welcome, ChocoDonut
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Teehee, daFreak!
Well, this story just gets more and more annoying.
This is exactly why I find it hard to trust people.
Yep, I'm on my one for Comic Relief. They don't wanna do it.
God, they're so selfish, after I've sorted it out, got £35 of sponsor money, had my mom stitcha whole custom blazer, etc. etc.
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The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
ProgrammingFreak wrote:
The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
Thanks for the quick reply! I'm texting M, and she said K texted her saying: 'yeah i jus gotta b on ma own gtg'
Then she left.
Then again, K is famed for overreacting. :SYou're welcome, ChocoDonut
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Teehee, daFreak!
Well, this story just gets more and more annoying.
This is exactly why I find it hard to trust people.
Yep, I'm on my one for Comic Relief. They don't wanna do it.
God, they're so selfish, after I've sorted it out, got £35 of sponsor money, had my mom stitcha whole custom blazer, etc. etc.![]()
Well that stinks. Wish I could help ya.
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ProgrammingFreak wrote:
The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
ProgrammingFreak wrote:
You're welcome, ChocoDonut![]()
Teehee, daFreak!
Well, this story just gets more and more annoying.
This is exactly why I find it hard to trust people.
Yep, I'm on my one for Comic Relief. They don't wanna do it.
God, they're so selfish, after I've sorted it out, got £35 of sponsor money, had my mom stitcha whole custom blazer, etc. etc.![]()
Well that stinks. Wish I could help ya.
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Thanks
It's like a TV soap! I've talked to M, and she never said that she didn't want to do the Comic Relief thing, so J might be lying to me...
K's okay with me now though, she knows I was annoyed at everything but her
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The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
ProgrammingFreak wrote:
The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
Teehee, daFreak!
Well, this story just gets more and more annoying.
This is exactly why I find it hard to trust people.
Yep, I'm on my one for Comic Relief. They don't wanna do it.
God, they're so selfish, after I've sorted it out, got £35 of sponsor money, had my mom stitcha whole custom blazer, etc. etc.![]()
Well that stinks. Wish I could help ya.
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Thanks
It's like a TV soap! I've talked to M, and she never said that she didn't want to do the Comic Relief thing, so J might be lying to me...
K's okay with me now though, she knows I was annoyed at everything but her
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Well thats good.
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ProgrammingFreak wrote:
The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
ProgrammingFreak wrote:
Well that stinks. Wish I could help ya.![]()
Thanks
It's like a TV soap! I've talked to M, and she never said that she didn't want to do the Comic Relief thing, so J might be lying to me...
K's okay with me now though, she knows I was annoyed at everything but her
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Well thats good.
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I guess... but now I'm worried about K. She just said that she's considered killing herself, she said: 'there's nout to live for no more bab'
I bet shes just being a bit OTT, but let'snot go into detail on a kid's programming website. I might call Childline for her... Cheddargirl, I need your awesome advice!
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The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
ProgrammingFreak wrote:
The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
ThanksIt's like a TV soap! I've talked to M, and she never said that she didn't want to do the Comic Relief thing, so J might be lying to me...
K's okay with me now though, she knows I was annoyed at everything but her
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Well thats good.
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I guess... but now I'm worried about K. She just said that she's considered killing herself, she said: 'there's nout to live for no more bab'
I bet shes just being a bit OTT, but let'snot go into detail on a kid's programming website. I might call Childline for her... Cheddargirl, I need your awesome advice!![]()
lol. Well I hope she doesn't kill herself!
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Hm, I doubt she will, but I'll mention Childline to her. Things aren't great at home for her.
Well, at least most of the crisis is over...
And thanks daFreak for your advice!
It's kinda comforting!!
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The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
Hm, I doubt she will, but I'll mention Childline to her. Things aren't great at home for her.
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Well, at least most of the crisis is over...![]()
And thanks daFreak for your advice!It's kinda comforting!!
You're welcome! So should this be closed?
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Just preteen drama
By the way, you say she(?) thinks she(?) annoys you, and you said you're irritated by her(?). That makes her(?) right
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Blade-Edge wrote:
Just preteen drama
By the way, you say she(?) thinks she(?) annoys you, and you said you're irritated by her(?). That makes her(?) right
1. We are teens
2. She doesn't irritate me, where did I say that?
This is why I often hang with boys.
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The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
I am irritated by her.
And how old are you
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Eat both of them. Problems are solved.
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The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
Blade-Edge wrote:
Just preteen drama
By the way, you say she(?) thinks she(?) annoys you, and you said you're irritated by her(?). That makes her(?) right1. We are teens
2. She doesn't irritate me, where did I say that?
This is why I often hang with boys.
Wait... You're saying that YOU are a boy? Or you are a girl, and hang out with boys because they aren't so dumb like some girls. Unlike me, and you, if you are one... Some girls would FREAK OUT if this was happening to them, they would end up enemy's for life...
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Maygenr wrote:
The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
Blade-Edge wrote:
Just preteen drama
By the way, you say she(?) thinks she(?) annoys you, and you said you're irritated by her(?). That makes her(?) right1. We are teens
2. She doesn't irritate me, where did I say that?
This is why I often hang with boys.Wait... You're saying that YOU are a boy? Or you are a girl, and hang out with boys because they aren't so dumb like some girls. Unlike me, and you, if you are one... Some girls would FREAK OUT if this was happening to them, they would end up enemy's for life...
I'm a girl that realises how mean other girls can be. I'm not really FREAKING OUT, I'm pretty much keeping my cool - it'll all sort itself out in a few days.
@blade - What post did you find that from? I mean her attitude was a bit annoying, but I'm not annoyed at HER literally as a person.
And I'm 13
HA
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The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
ProgrammingFreak wrote:
The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
ThanksIt's like a TV soap! I've talked to M, and she never said that she didn't want to do the Comic Relief thing, so J might be lying to me...
K's okay with me now though, she knows I was annoyed at everything but her
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Well thats good.
![]()
I guess... but now I'm worried about K. She just said that she's considered killing herself, she said: 'there's nout to live for no more bab'
I bet shes just being a bit OTT, but let'snot go into detail on a kid's programming website. I might call Childline for her... Cheddargirl, I need your awesome advice!![]()
Geez, I'm away for a few days days to take care of some stuff in my personal life and already I get people asking me for help during my leave.
From the looks of this thread, though, everything has more or less sorted itself out?

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cheddargirl wrote:
The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
ProgrammingFreak wrote:
Well thats good.
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I guess... but now I'm worried about K. She just said that she's considered killing herself, she said: 'there's nout to live for no more bab'
I bet shes just being a bit OTT, but let'snot go into detail on a kid's programming website. I might call Childline for her... Cheddargirl, I need your awesome advice!![]()
Geez, I'm away for a few days days to take care of some stuff in my personal life and already I get people asking me for help during my leave.
![]()
From the looks of this thread, though, everything has more or less sorted itself out?
People like a little cheddar to spice up their posts.
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cheddargirl wrote:
The_Dancing_Donut wrote:
ProgrammingFreak wrote:
Well thats good.![]()
I guess... but now I'm worried about K. She just said that she's considered killing herself, she said: 'there's nout to live for no more bab'
I bet shes just being a bit OTT, but let'snot go into detail on a kid's programming website. I might call Childline for her... Cheddargirl, I need your awesome advice!![]()
Geez, I'm away for a few days days to take care of some stuff in my personal life and already I get people asking me for help during my leave.
![]()
From the looks of this thread, though, everything has more or less sorted itself out?
Sorry!
It's still dead awkward, but pretty much okay...
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