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#26 2011-10-18 14:49:33
- cheddargirl
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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?
Reminds me when I was in second grade and faced this problem.
Your friends are fighting over you without realizing what it's really doing is ruining their friendship with you. Your best bet is to leave both of them alone for a while until they sort their arguments out. If they approach you, say you don't really want to talk to them until they're willing to sort their problems out (although feel free to talk to them if they need you as a mediator since you are friends with both of them). If they really value your friendship, they'll attempt to work whatever problems are between them.
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#27 2011-10-18 15:01:36
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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?
cheddargirl wrote:
Reminds me when I was in second grade and faced this problem.
Your friends are fighting over you without realizing what it's really doing is ruining their friendship with you. Your best bet is to leave both of them alone for a while until they sort their arguments out. If they approach you, say you don't really want to talk to them until they're willing to sort their problems out (although feel free to talk to them if they need you as a mediator since you are friends with both of them). If they really value your friendship, they'll attempt to work whatever problems are between them.
I'm not in that problem, but good advice 
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#28 2011-10-18 16:35:33
Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?
cheddargirl wrote:
Reminds me when I was in second grade and faced this problem.
Your friends are fighting over you without realizing what it's really doing is ruining their friendship with you. Your best bet is to leave both of them alone for a while until they sort their arguments out. If they approach you, say you don't really want to talk to them until they're willing to sort their problems out (although feel free to talk to them if they need you as a mediator since you are friends with both of them). If they really value your friendship, they'll attempt to work whatever problems are between them.
Are they really fighting over me?
I think they might be sick of each other (they went to elementary school together) but I'm really not sure.
It makes sense that they would fight over me, though.
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#29 2011-10-19 00:35:40
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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?
imnotbob wrote:
cheddargirl wrote:
Reminds me when I was in second grade and faced this problem.
Your friends are fighting over you without realizing what it's really doing is ruining their friendship with you. Your best bet is to leave both of them alone for a while until they sort their arguments out. If they approach you, say you don't really want to talk to them until they're willing to sort their problems out (although feel free to talk to them if they need you as a mediator since you are friends with both of them). If they really value your friendship, they'll attempt to work whatever problems are between them.Are they really fighting over me?
I think they might be sick of each other (they went to elementary school together) but I'm really not sure.
It makes sense that they would fight over me, though.
Sounds like it, since it seems like the fights occur whenever one of them tries to talk to you. If it was just a beef between the two of them only, then they shouldn't really be involving you into it.
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#31 2011-10-19 02:00:43
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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?
I'd reconmend telling them this:
" Please, guys, don't fight. I can't be your friend if you guys can't get along. "
Try to get them to talk over why they hate each other. 2/4 of the time they would make up.
EDIT: Forgot an ".
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#32 2011-10-19 07:15:11
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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?
One is in Pre-K?
Thats the problem 
Children in Preschool or younger can easily develop love or hate, based on the actions around them.
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#33 2011-10-21 12:00:12
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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?
Well you can't have everything. You'll have to choose between them or you'll lose them both. That's life
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#34 2011-10-21 16:34:47
Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?
Nexstudent wrote:
One is in Pre-K?
Thats the problem
Children in Preschool or younger can easily develop love or hate, based on the actions around them.
No, one if them has been my friend since Pre-K.
I'll go edit that right now.
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