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#1 2011-10-16 16:43:07

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My friends hate each other... what should I do?

I have a bit of a friend problem.

My best friend since Pre-K hates my new best friend. They've been calling each other terrible things, and I always get caught in the middle. I try to get away, but the fight always starts when one of them tries to talk to me.

What should I do?!

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#2 2011-10-16 16:44:05

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Fake your death and move.


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#3 2011-10-16 16:46:02

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

^To mexico

this happened to my best friend
It was sad D:
I don't know how we resolved it
I ended up best friends with me enemy
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#4 2011-10-16 17:15:06

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

You use the power of the magic of love and tolerance.

hah jk
Try talking to them. or use a little bit of violence

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#5 2011-10-16 17:45:36

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Make 'em play together with you, but I'm not entirely sure that'd work.  Make sure they really know each other before they judge one another.

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#6 2011-10-16 17:52:41

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

See, old friends and new friends, friends from different places (like one from school and one from your neighborhood (Even though you'd probably go to the same school)), or church, or something like that, are very awkward when put together. In this situation, things are awry, so you should take Pluto's advice. (Above post)


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#7 2011-10-16 17:53:51

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

I bet they're in love. Maybe. Probably not.


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#8 2011-10-16 18:07:44

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

I have the exact same problem!  yikes


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#9 2011-10-16 18:33:06

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

brettman98 wrote:

Fake your death and move.


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#10 2011-10-16 18:40:26

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Tell them both to shut it and try to comprimise after you find out what the heck the problem is

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#11 2011-10-16 19:03:02

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Force them to watch MLP:FIM together. They'll then know the magic of friendship.

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#12 2011-10-16 19:05:48

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

owetre18 wrote:

Force them to watch MLP:FIM together. They'll then know the magic of friendship.

This

or move to alberquerque

but if you already live there move on a tropical island in the middle  of the ocean


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#13 2011-10-16 19:13:32

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Animeboy975 wrote:

owetre18 wrote:

Force them to watch MLP:FIM together. They'll then know the magic of friendship.

This

or move to alberquerque

but if you already live there move on a tropical island in the middle  of the ocean

But what if you live in BOTH?


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#14 2011-10-16 19:15:33

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Well, it really depends on what triggers the fighting, or what it is that they fight about.
But Many times, in situations of the old friend quarreling with the new friend, the problem is that the old friend is't thrilled about not receiving as much attention as before, or just doesn't like change, so he/she will try to bully the new friend away. If that is the case, time is usually the only cure, the old friend should except the change after a while. Meanwhile, try to include both friends as often as possible so either don't feel left out.

Hope this helps.   smile

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#15 2011-10-16 19:53:18

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Get another friend to bully you, in front of those friends, but FAKE! Not real, it could look real, but it has to be fake, if you know what I Mean. Shout "Help! Save me, guys! Work together, settle your differences, make up, and SAVE ME!!!!!" or something like that.Then, they'll team up and Save you from the (Fake) bully.Then, you can go to one of their houses, and eat. Not sure if that will work, though.

Try that. If it fails, get them them to know each other, and then let them play with you, a game of dodgeball of something.  smile  Hope this helps.


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#16 2011-10-16 20:05:33

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Yikes! D:

Your old friend doesn't have the right to bully anybody to keep you as a friend.
It won't work. Talk to each of your friends privately, and let them know how you are hurting when they fight with each other. If they're friends worth keeping, they won't want you to be so stuck and upset. They'll want to help you.
If they can't understand that by hurting each other they hurt you too, then maybe it's time to take a break for a couple weeks, or however long it takes for them to realize that fighting won't help. Don't completely ignore them, but let them know that if they can't try to be somewhat nice to each other, they can't be nice to you.


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#17 2011-10-16 22:37:41

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Uhh... Tell them to shut up and quit fighting next time they do it. It should work. But you have to be a bit stern about it.


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#18 2011-10-16 22:45:39

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Get them to talk over the phone with Evil Operator.


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#19 2011-10-17 18:29:01

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Yeah that happened to me once
Except it was me and the other person who hated each other
We were never friends again, just saying
Good luck  smile


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#20 2011-10-17 18:37:46

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

nextstorm wrote:

You use the magic of friendship

hah jk
Try talking to them. or use a little bit of violence

tongue  Just kidding..

Try to have a conversation with each of them about how you feel in the middle when they argue with the other friend, and then move on to a group session with one of your parents or someone else reliable as well.

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#21 2011-10-18 11:40:57

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Oooh thats not a nice situation to be in,.I had a problem a while ago with one of my friends, she`s not my friend any more cause I realised she is not a true friend because of different things. Talk to your friends and ask them to solve out their differences,just so you can all get along. If they don`t, im not sure if your situation is similar to what mine was, you may realise that they may not be the people you think they are if they are being so cruel to each other. You dont have to break friends with them, i am sure you guys will work this out if they both love being your friend so much.

Good luck from Mangapenguin  wink

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#22 2011-10-18 11:42:27

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

You should make them not hate each other.


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#23 2011-10-18 11:48:43

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Try to find something they both like. And then talk about it.
Or explain what you feel about the matter and tell them how childish and selfish they are acting.

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#24 2011-10-18 13:03:38

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

Alternatives wrote:

You should make them not hate each other.

Well done, Sherlock c:

Meh, maybe go away for 1 day & leave them alone together. they'll hav to get along or they'll look like loners.


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#25 2011-10-18 13:05:29

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Re: My friends hate each other... what should I do?

AnimeCreatorArtist wrote:

I have the exact same problem!  yikes


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