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#76 2011-09-28 16:23:49

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Re: Oh my goodness I did it AGAIN...

PlutoIsHades wrote:

calebxy wrote:

If the girl doesn't like you as you are, then she doesn't like you. If you have to change your personality just so she'll like you then the relationship is never going to work. Of course, I'm talking about your personality, not how kind or how rude you are or anything like that. You should try and be as kind as possible regardless.

Yeah!  You should be yourself, not be some weirdo you're not!  Your friends should respect you for who you are, not who you're pretending to be!

Good to someone agrees with me.  smile


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#77 2011-09-28 19:19:54

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Re: Oh my goodness I did it AGAIN...

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

bananaman114 wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Ok, here we go:
This advice is coming from someone who's been dating a boy for 10 months now, I do have an idea of what to tell you. ;3
Well, basically you have to show her you're interested, but not by being all like 'oh hey baby are you okay babes?' 'cos that's creepy and will likely make her want to slap you. Instead, get to know her as a friend, chat about school and anything you can think of, try to be funny and lighthearted (without using any dodgy words). Try not to dress up oddly, or try too hard to impress her clothing-wise. She doesn't sound shallow enough to fret about your appearance.
Maybe compliment her hair or something. And DON'T stare. There's a guy in my class who fancies me, and he's forever staring at me like a pervert. It's not cute, it's creepy ._. If you REALLY wanna break the ice, maybe be like 'I like your earrings, they're almost as pretty as you are' or soething. It sounds like you're not brave enough to do that, but oh well  tongue
Maybe call her or text her once in a while as well, ask how she is and stuff. Not like 24/7, just show her you care.
And the golden rule: ALWAYS LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS! I say this as a girl, we can be really easily offended. If you act like you're not listening, you're in trouble. You spend a lot of time with other girls? She'll think you're a player. We can get really bad mood swings, are insecure (needing constant reassurance that we are pretty/thin). You have to act like you don't notice her sudden moodiness and rows with mates. Just generally be nice. ^.^
Thus ends today's lesson. Questions? XD
Hope that helped. (':

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i do stare
but only because the teacher stands right in front of her and she's in the front row :p

    anyway
 
"some wierdo I'm NOT"?
try some wierdo I AM lol :p

I am totally not vain
She is relatively but not to the point of annoyance..

  I did "accidentally" bump into her
but it really was an accident

I don't spend time with girls
they spend time with ME
it's annoying actually
they follow me EVERYWHERE

-_-
one of them actually asked me out last year
  I declined

By 'stare', I meant in a creepy way, like  tongue  Ugh, hate it when all boys do is stare at your chest or your butt, it's so freaky  sad
Is she like me, and wears a lot of make-up? ^^;

That's like Albertt911, he's a chick magnet x3

I be'z weird too >w<

I know you meant in a creepy way
  As far as I know she doesn't


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#78 2011-09-28 19:33:58

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Re: Oh my goodness I did it AGAIN...

I've had a crush on the same girl for about a year, now. After months of not really doing anything, I won her with my witty whits and sardonic comments. Unfortunately, she's in all honors, and I'm in accelerated with 2 senior levels AP's. That means that we're in none of the same classes, and (at least I) don't have much time for a social life. I'm depressed  sad

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#79 2011-09-28 19:42:09

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Re: Oh my goodness I did it AGAIN...

JJROCKER wrote:

Oh what this world has become. Now there is a small amount of girls who DON'T say bad words. I don't say bad words ever personally but really, this is what the world has become?

I'm a girl and I don't say bad words ever. I do use the word devil though http://i56.tinypic.com/2jg4392.png

*sigh* A few people "like like" me, but I don't really like them back.

My friends make jokes about it http://i56.tinypic.com/2jg4392.png One of the guys that likes me is named Jake, and my friends are (almost) all fans of Adventure Time, so when they heard I was going as Lady Rainicorn for Halloween... you can imagine the torture if you watch even a little bit of Adventure Time.

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#80 2011-09-28 20:29:40

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Re: Oh my goodness I did it AGAIN...

bananaman114 wrote:

Oh no.. after last year you would think I would have smartened up? D:

I have a crush on a girl.

  Again.

   -_- How idiotic can I be?

  It's not shallow this time, though.
I don't just like her for her looks

not to say she isn't pretty
I mean
she is

but
I swear
she is an ANGEL

  she doesn't swear
She won't even say "devil"
 
She will literally say
"You sneaky little person!"

    and at least she's in my grade this time
   And in my class even

   big_smile

  so
I don't exactly remember what I learned last time
-_-

Could you help me out please

Here he goes again, what insanity... tongue

I want to know more. Have you tried anything so far? Has she shown any interest? I mean, it's so weird. My  crush told me I was smart, pretty, blahblahblah and I really thought he liked me (he consideres me a friend) but then he started to hang out with the 'cool' kids. I'm nice so everyone likes me, so I could hang out with those kids if I wanted, but I don't want to leave all of my nice friends.

Whoops, that's my own dilemma  tongue

Sorry, I didn't help much...but DETAILS DETAILS DETAILS!


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#81 2011-09-28 20:50:44

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Re: Oh my goodness I did it AGAIN...

randomnumber53 wrote:

I've had a crush on the same girl for about a year, now. After months of not really doing anything, I won her with my witty whits and sardonic comments. Unfortunately, she's in all honors, and I'm in accelerated with 2 senior levels AP's. That means that we're in none of the same classes, and (at least I) don't have much time for a social life. I'm depressed  sad

Does anybody have any advice for me?


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