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pokemongardevoir · 2011-08-13 14:24:46

Yes, i'm having more social problems with that certian someone.

So basically, Me, her, and one other are doing collab camp, but so far she hasnt really, well.. done anything. And pretty much everything else she could do was already done. I dont feel like she should get credit for things she didnt do, yet i'm torn because of these three things:

1: Collab camp is almolst over! No one else is accepting members anymore, and were going away for the last few weeks of the month.

2: (This kinda gives it away) But she's my sister. My own flesh and blood. If we kick her out, i'll never hear the end of it.

3: Were still having that issue where she gets popular and never credits me when i do all of her work. I just cant say no when she asks, im too nice! Plus, some teeny part inside of me thinks if i give her credit when she does nothing, she'll start giving me credit when i do all her work. But i know that will never happen.

Again, sorry for treating you guys like my therapists ^^;

frizzlepuss893 · 2011-08-13 14:42:38

Then obviously your sister is a terrible person. Just give her a black eye or whatever and show her who's boss! If that doesn't work, then tell all her friends her deepest and darkest secrets. If that doesn't work, just go into her account and do one of these two: Give yourself credit or delete all her projects. If all else fails, do the answer to everything ... Violence. Actually don't do violence. Only do that if you get desperate.

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pokemongardevoir · 2011-08-13 14:52:06

frizzlepuss893 wrote:
Then obviously your sister is a terrible person. Just give her a black eye or whatever and show her who's boss! If that doesn't work, then tell all her friends her deepest and darkest secrets. If that doesn't work, just go into her account and do one of these two: Give yourself credit or delete all her projects. If all else fails, do the answer to everything ... Violence. Actually don't do violence. Only do that if you get desperate.

I have tried all of that.... and failed.

Well... she was at sleep away camp for a week but she had plenty of time before that.

frizzlepuss893 · 2011-08-13 15:03:46

pokemongardevoir wrote:
frizzlepuss893 wrote:
Then obviously your sister is a terrible person. Just give her a black eye or whatever and show her who's boss! If that doesn't work, then tell all her friends her deepest and darkest secrets. If that doesn't work, just go into her account and do one of these two: Give yourself credit or delete all her projects. If all else fails, do the answer to everything ... Violence. Actually don't do violence. Only do that if you get desperate.
I have tried all of that.... and failed.

Well... she was at sleep away camp for a week but she had plenty of time before that.

So you mean you've gave her a black eye? Her friends know her deepest and darkest secrets only you should know? You've even hacked into her account and deleted all her projects? You've even been even MORE violent and broken her bones? I don't believe you. Is she older or younger? And why don't you just tell your parents?

Death_Wish · 2011-08-13 15:22:08

frizzlepuss893 wrote:
Then obviously your sister is a terrible person. Just give her a black eye or whatever and show her who's boss! If that doesn't work, then tell all her friends her deepest and darkest secrets. If that doesn't work, just go into her account and do one of these two: Give yourself credit or delete all her projects. If all else fails, do the answer to everything ... Violence. Actually don't do violence. Only do that if you get desperate.

Doing all of those don't really make him be able to take out credit. I mean, telling her friends some secret wouldn't make him be able to take 100% credit tongue
Some advice that doesn't involve making your sister want to kill you for other reasons than the project: Ask her what she did in the collab. She'll probably say some minor stuff as if it was major, so that'll probably fail. If she doesn't think of anything though (She literally didn't do anything in the collab), then say you won't give her credit. It's logical, so unless she's 7 or something, that might work. You should probably say if she's 10+ or 10-, and if she's immature or not. It'd make helping easier.

And if that fails, tell your parents/Just ignore her and don't give her credit.
Or, lastly, give her credit, who cares. We know you made it, and the project's probably not going to get too many views, so it would just be easier to go with the flow.

pokemongardevoir · 2011-08-13 15:22:20

frizzlepuss893 wrote:
pokemongardevoir wrote:
frizzlepuss893 wrote:
Then obviously your sister is a terrible person. Just give her a black eye or whatever and show her who's boss! If that doesn't work, then tell all her friends her deepest and darkest secrets. If that doesn't work, just go into her account and do one of these two: Give yourself credit or delete all her projects. If all else fails, do the answer to everything ... Violence. Actually don't do violence. Only do that if you get desperate.
I have tried all of that.... and failed.

Well... she was at sleep away camp for a week but she had plenty of time before that.
So you mean you've gave her a black eye? Her friends know her deepest and darkest secrets only you should know? You've even hacked into her account and deleted all her projects? You've even been even MORE violent and broken her bones? I don't believe you. Is she older or younger? And why don't you just tell your parents?

I meant i already tried everything i could.

Well i can't do the black eye and deep secrets things.
I cant hurt her because i take martial arts and i made a commitment to only use what i know outside of the school for self defense, and/or training with my friend.

I did hack but i got grounded. I didnt delete her projects.

I am not allowed to even touch her or she yells for mom/dad, yet she used to phisically hurt me all the time.

I DO tell my parents, and they talk to her but it just wont work! I think they're scared of her too. She's younger, but everyone says she's tougher than me.

pokemongardevoir · 2011-08-13 15:29:19

Death_Wish wrote:
frizzlepuss893 wrote:
Then obviously your sister is a terrible person. Just give her a black eye or whatever and show her who's boss! If that doesn't work, then tell all her friends her deepest and darkest secrets. If that doesn't work, just go into her account and do one of these two: Give yourself credit or delete all her projects. If all else fails, do the answer to everything ... Violence. Actually don't do violence. Only do that if you get desperate.
Doing all of those don't really make him be able to take out credit. I mean, telling her friends some secret wouldn't make him be able to take 100% credit
Some advice that doesn't involve making your sister want to kill you for other reasons than the project: Ask her what she did in the collab. She'll probably say some minor stuff as if it was major, so that'll probably fail. If she doesn't think of anything though (She literally didn't do anything in the collab), then say you won't give her credit. It's logical, so unless she's 7 or something, that might work. You should probably say if she's 10+ or 10-, and if she's immature or not. It'd make helping easier.

And if that fails, tell your parents/Just ignore her and don't give her credit.
Or, lastly, give her credit, who cares. We know you made it, and the project's probably not going to get too many views, so it would just be easier to go with the flow.

She's 9 and a half, but she's very smart and capable, but not very good on scratch yet.
I'd say ours is really good and we may even have a chance at the feature. When I'm pretty much the only one working on scripting it comes out real nice. I have me on art, programming, story and that stuff, someone else on music. I probably will end up haveing to give my sis credit. I would show my mom the fourm, but then she'll be all "Duur hurr these people are suggesting bad things i dun want u on scratch anymore durr hurr."

PS- I'm a chick XD But its ok, it doesnt even matter. I just dont want everuone to get confsed. Gender is meaningless XD

frizzlepuss893 · 2011-08-13 15:45:57

pokemongardevoir wrote:
frizzlepuss893 wrote:
pokemongardevoir wrote:
I have tried all of that.... and failed.

Well... she was at sleep away camp for a week but she had plenty of time before that.
So you mean you've gave her a black eye? Her friends know her deepest and darkest secrets only you should know? You've even hacked into her account and deleted all her projects? You've even been even MORE violent and broken her bones? I don't believe you. Is she older or younger? And why don't you just tell your parents?
I meant i already tried everything i could.

Well i can't do the black eye and deep secrets things.
I cant hurt her because i take martial arts and i made a commitment to only use what i know outside of the school for self defense, and/or training with my friend.

I did hack but i got grounded. I didnt delete her projects.

I am not allowed to even touch her or she yells for mom/dad, yet she used to phisically hurt me all the time.

I DO tell my parents, and they talk to her but it just wont work! I think they're scared of her too. She's younger, but everyone says she's tougher than me.

Commitment schmitment! Just do it! I take martial arts and that doesn't stop me! I mean, it's just words!

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pokemongardevoir · 2011-08-13 15:49:53

frizzlepuss893 wrote:
Commitment schmitment! Just do it! I take martial arts and that doesn't stop me! I mean, it's just words!

.... I... I cant.... i'm sorry.... :c

Harakou · 2011-08-13 15:52:17

frizzlepuss893 wrote:
pokemongardevoir wrote:
frizzlepuss893 wrote:

So you mean you've gave her a black eye? Her friends know her deepest and darkest secrets only you should know? You've even hacked into her account and deleted all her projects? You've even been even MORE violent and broken her bones? I don't believe you. Is she older or younger? And why don't you just tell your parents?
I meant i already tried everything i could.

Well i can't do the black eye and deep secrets things.
I cant hurt her because i take martial arts and i made a commitment to only use what i know outside of the school for self defense, and/or training with my friend.

I did hack but i got grounded. I didnt delete her projects.

I am not allowed to even touch her or she yells for mom/dad, yet she used to phisically hurt me all the time.

I DO tell my parents, and they talk to her but it just wont work! I think they're scared of her too. She's younger, but everyone says she's tougher than me.
Commitment schmitment! Just do it! I take martial arts and that doesn't stop me! I mean, it's just words!

You really shouldn't be suggesting that she resort to violence or other ways of inflicting harm on her sister. That's not going to solve anything and will probably just get her in trouble.

I think I'll repeat the gist of what I said on your last thread about this: your sister is basically taking advantage of you and getting away with it by throwing a fit when you try to get credit for what you've done. I would just refuse to help her. hmm

frizzlepuss893 · 2011-08-13 16:23:56

If you... Can't... Your... Sorry.... Than it's your problem. Don't you want your sister to stop?

pokemongardevoir · 2011-08-13 16:37:44

frizzlepuss893 wrote:
If you... Can't... Your... Sorry.... Than it's your problem. Don't you want your sister to stop?

I do but violence isnt the way...

And Harakou, it's just so hard for me to say no! I dont know why. Maybe its because i have trouble with these sorts of things..

And PS- glad you won the election! I was gunna vote, but the thread was closed.

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frizzlepuss893 · 2011-08-13 17:05:01

It's not bullying....

Thescratch3 · 2011-08-13 19:24:35

Try this. Get her to the computer. Ask her, Want to add anything to our collab? If she answers like okay I have got an idea or something like that, say okay can you add it then (if you approve)

kayybee · 2011-08-13 19:32:11

How to have a better life with your sister:
1. Never help her again until after she credits you for everything.
2. Find a random person to do the collab with, and threaten to kick your sister out if she doesn't start doing something.
3. Ignore everything she says after you do 1 and 2 until she agrees to 1 and/or 2.
4. If ignoring is too hard, be mean to her. In a way that won't get you grounded. Use reverse psychology. Also, when she hits you, pretend to be weak and start to bawl.

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MyRedNeptune · 2011-08-13 19:44:02

frizzlepuss893 wrote:
It's not bullying....

Instructing somebody on Scratch to inflict physical harm on a person is NOT ok. I understand that you might have your own opinion and experience, but trying to convince somebody that committing violence is fine is a bit inappropriate.

Let's try to limit our suggestions to less violent ones, ok? ^^

Flait7 · 2011-08-13 19:57:16

I think she might need some tough love, she's obviously taking advantage of your kindness without giving you any sort of credit. Teach her to either give you credit, or to independently do work on her own. Make sure she does something, and let her know that if she doesn't, she'll have to face being kicked out of the group for not contributing to the team effort. She'll just keep doing this if she knows she can get away with it.

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LordSydney · 2011-08-13 22:03:35

Assert yourself. Make sure you give her credit, but only for everything she has done. If that is nothing, then say she gave ideas or something. If your sister screams or yells or calls for your mum/dad because you didn't give her the credit she wanted, just stand your ground and refuse to give in. From what I've heard, your sister is spoiled. If you want to enjoy the rest of your childhood, she has to learn to respect you for who you are and for what you do. Don't do anything too harsh without equally harsh provocation. I don't suggest you kick her out of your collab or hurt her (Frizzlepuss mad ) or do anything that can get her to call your parents on you.

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pokemongardevoir · 2011-08-14 08:17:11

Thanks for everyones help. I'll keep trying. (Although it's 101% likely to fail)

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