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somelia wrote:

I'm in love again. Seriously.=

This isn't like one of those childhood crushes. I'm old enough to date now...

I mean, this guy is like, perfect! I mean:

Obsession with Pokemon/Lavender Town? Check. Nice? Check. Confident? Check. Modest? Check. Meek? Check.

So...what do YOU think?

And he likes me back. Seriously he does.

The problem is, I'm caught in a love triangle. I like him, he likes me, but there's this other girl who likes him, and I'm afraid he's going to start dating her and just ignore me...

I'm in the same situation, except it's the boy who likes another girl. DX

somelia wrote:

I'm in love again. Seriously.=

This isn't like one of those childhood crushes. I'm old enough to date now...

I mean, this guy is like, perfect! I mean:

Obsession with Pokemon/Lavender Town? Check. Nice? Check. Confident? Check. Modest? Check. Meek? Check.

So...what do YOU think?

And he likes me back. Seriously he does.

The problem is, I'm caught in a love triangle. I like him, he likes me, but there's this other girl who likes him, and I'm afraid he's going to start dating her and just ignore me...

You're 11. One dates to see if the person they're dating is the right person to marry. In 7-8 years you'll be old enough to marry, and so dating then would make more sense than dating now. I highly doubt that you'll still like him in 7-8 years so dating would likely lead to eventual heartbreak.

Last edited by Sunrise-Moon (2011-06-01 17:17:51)

jfmlove6 wrote:

agscratcher wrote:

somelia wrote:

Obsession with Pokemon/Lavender Town? Check.

AS much as you?

No one can match her in the LT obsession. I think thats what LTS really is- getting people obsessed with it to death.

My point re-said.

11 is definitively not enough to date, and any relations at that age seem to last for, like, a month or so at most. Exactly why now I'm 14 and haven't even been close to that in my whole life. 

But if you really wanna go ahead and try, I'd say just get a bit closer to him, and when you feel it's the right moment, tell him what you feel for him.

well 11 isnt necassarily too young to date but you basically have to be the most mature person you know

at your age i would just flirt a lot and become really good friends

that would make dating later more possible and legit

4Infinity wrote:

well 11 isnt necassarily too young to date but you basically have to be the most mature person you know

at your age i would just flirt a lot and become really good friends

that would make dating later more possible and legit

True, true.

Albeit you can't really help having a crush on the oppisite gender......

Last edited by bananaman114 (2011-06-01 17:55:43)

Necromaster wrote:

4Infinity wrote:

if you lie under a rock for a few days it helps to think about this

i find i think best when im not around people

Then thou art an Introvert. I am an Extrovert...


Anyway, how old are you then somelia? You don't have to answer as this is the internet and all...

um just cause i like to think without people around doesnt mean im introverted

why is this your concern anyway

i have gettysburg and 12three as my witness

oh wait 12three's banned

bananaman114 wrote:

4Infinity wrote:

well 11 isnt necassarily too young to date but you basically have to be the most mature person you know

at your age i would just flirt a lot and become really good friends

that would make dating later more possible and legit

True, true.

Albeit you can't really help having a crush on the oppisite gender......

at 11?
well it really isnt big or anything then

Last edited by 4Infinity (2011-06-01 18:02:55)

bananaman114 wrote:

4Infinity wrote:

well 11 isnt necassarily too young to date but you basically have to be the most mature person you know

at your age i would just flirt a lot and become really good friends

that would make dating later more possible and legit

True, true.

Albeit you can't really help having a crush on the oppisite gender......

unless you're gay

"eliminate" the other girl.

Earthboundjeff wrote:

"eliminate" the other girl.

your social skills must be outstanding

GravityCatisalie wrote:

I never understood why people date when they are 11. I mean, dates are more like playdates. "Oh, wanna go out? My mom will take us to Chuck-E-Cheese."

Yeah, it's stupid. In elementary school "boyfriend"/"girlfriend" is just a title. And in my opinion middle school too. I'd wait until you can at least drive.

I personally think the moment you hit 13, you can begin dating.

Somelia, you should eliminate the competition. There are two ways to do this. The moral way and the immoral way. The immoral way is more fun and works better, but its immoral.

The moral way is to draw attention to strengths.
The immoral way... hehehe... is to draw attention to her weaknesses. Pass notes around, jump on her every fault etc. etc. Do not do this in front of your crush. Do this in front of your crush's friends. They will report it to their crush, misleadingly, in an attempt to be matchmakers.

Slippery slope follows, and before you know it, there's not competition.

[As a 12 year old, I wonder if I'm qualified to type this.]