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Pecola1 wrote:

somelia, think how weird it would be if you went out with him, then later in life, you marry someone else. (Which 99.9999999999999... percent of the time happens), then you remember when you were in fifth grade, DATING A DIFFERENT GUY, its like you left part of you with him. And he left part with you. You need to say NO to him. Tell him your reason and he will see why not to do it too, and if he doesn't respect your reason, then why should you like him in the first place? Don't just tell him 'i'm too young' tell him my example, he should get it. Now you may get older and go to the same collage, and he may still be someone you like, and he likes you, THEN he might ask you out and you can say yes. (And to any boys, don't ask her out before asking your AND the girls parents if its okay.)

Uh...most people date different people before they finally marry...

And anyways, future Somelia would probably dismiss it as childhood inmaturity, if she even remembered it...

Sunrise-Moon wrote:

Pecola1 wrote:

somelia, think how weird it would be if you went out with him, then later in life, you marry someone else. (Which 99.9999999999999... percent of the time happens), then you remember when you were in fifth grade, DATING A DIFFERENT GUY, its like you left part of you with him. And he left part with you. You need to say NO to him. Tell him your reason and he will see why not to do it too, and if he doesn't respect your reason, then why should you like him in the first place? Don't just tell him 'i'm too young' tell him my example, he should get it. Now you may get older and go to the same collage, and he may still be someone you like, and he likes you, THEN he might ask you out and you can say yes. (And to any boys, don't ask her out before asking your AND the girls parents if its okay.)

Uh...most people date different people before they finally marry...

And anyways, future Somelia would probably dismiss it as childhood inmaturity, if she even remembered it...

So your saying she should do it because later she can give the excuse that she was immature?

Sunrise-Moon wrote:

Pecola1 wrote:

Sunrise-Moon wrote:

Uh...most people date different people before they finally marry...

And anyways, future Somelia would probably dismiss it as childhood inmaturity, if she even remembered it...

So your saying she should do it because later she can give the excuse that she was immature?

No, I'm saying if she were to do it, she wouldn't leave part of her with this kid, she'd dismiss it as childhood immaturity. Do you really think she would still like him 10 years from now?

No, thats why she shouldn't waste her life.

Astro947 wrote:

I'd take up the opportunity ASAP. If you don't answer he might find you shy and weak which is not what you are, is it?

She should tell him right away, but not actually go out, if I were asked to go out I would say no. You have to be stronger to be able to say NO. Not to say yes. Its easy to say yes.

Nexstudent wrote:

You think that's awkward? Well I guess it is.

I try hard to be funny, and other people laugh, but the girl I like doesn't. I also kill conversations.

I don't know what to say but this, don't end up making flat jokes.

LOL, someone I liked walked up to me (my friends sister and my sisters friend) It was at some school party and I didn't have any friends there (except her but I thought it would be awkward.) She walked up to me and asked if I was... what was it, distressed? No...
Anyways I didn't know what to say so I laughed, I regret it.

You may think your situation is weird, I don't really think so. I wish mine was like that. 

Last edited by TheGameMaster1231 (2011-05-18 16:38:55)

somelia wrote:

Well, this is what happened today.

He DID ask me again, and....okay, I've REALLY liked him ever since kindergarten. So I say yes. Now I'm dating at age...eleven?

Good. I did start "dating" at eleven also

Yes you're probably too young. Just wait until a relationship has a chance.

Elementary school: 2 days
Middle school: 2 weeks
High school: 2 months
College: one night

somelia wrote:

Well, this is what happened today.

He DID ask me again, and....okay, I've REALLY liked him ever since kindergarten. So I say yes. Now I'm dating at age...eleven?

Did you read my posts? I am disappointed, you see, you could have done that 'till you are older and even then, when you get married it would be you FIRST kiss, you FIRST time hugging, you see, thats what I am going to do, save it for the big day, when I know, I may date a little before, but not much.

Hold on here. Since when do fifth graders ask each other out? Anyway, as I have said before, I have zero experience in this sort of situation, so I can't help.

bananaman114 wrote:

urhungry wrote:

Hold on here. Since when do fifth graders ask each other out? Anyway, as I have said before, I have zero experience in this sort of situation, so I can't help.

I don't know, times have changed recently. 

In my school, it's the norm 

Pecola1 wrote:

somelia wrote:

Well, this is what happened today.

He DID ask me again, and....okay, I've REALLY liked him ever since kindergarten. So I say yes. Now I'm dating at age...eleven?

Did you read my posts? I am disappointed, you see, you could have done that 'till you are older and even then, when you get married it would be you FIRST kiss, you FIRST time hugging, you see, thats what I am going to do, save it for the big day, when I know, I may date a little before, but not much.

*cough* You can't tell a person you don't know your dissapointed in them because they did something they really wanted to do. There's NOTHING wrong with dating. And personally if I get married I don't want my wife to learn everything on the spot.

Last edited by Alternatives (2011-05-19 14:08:47)