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12three wrote:

rufflebee wrote:

Musicstar888 wrote:

Not to be disturbing or anything, but I am abnormally tall for my age (Or else everyone else is abnormally short) so I have already begun to feel really * off sometimes. And the boy I like is also abnormally tall and that's one reason I like him.

And stop calling me "Dude" I am, as you have noticed, a girl.
I've been trapped-no, wait-confined in this elementary school for 6 years, and I can't wait to get out.

And you both don't know me, so I doubt you'd know how people treat you when you're 5'4" and everyone else is like 2 feet tall. Everyone assumes you're fine with them coming up to you and saying, "Hey, Musicstar888, you're so TALL."
Yeah, I've noticed. 

That really doesn't have much, if anything, to do with 12three's post

Dear Rufflebee,

She was referring to an earlier one I made.

Signed,
12three

Dear 12three,

I know that. It didn't have anything to do with "hormones kicking in" either. Unless you were talking about a different post you made even earlier, in which case whatever,

Signed,
rufflebee


Dear maker of this thread (I don't remember the name),

I think the whole "liking" people and "dating" is pointless in Elementary/Middle School (Which I'm assuming you're in). At those ages, being "boyfriend and girlfriend" is pretty much just a title, and only that. They don't even do anything. Well, sometimes they have their parents drive them to Chick-fil-a for a "date" but I think that is kind of hilarious. I, personally, am a pretty unemotional person so I've never really "liked" anyone, so I can't really give any advice with that. I've been asked by four or five people this year if I want to "go out" with them, and I've said no to every one because it's just silly. If you like her, I suggest just trying to be friends or something. That's probably all you actually like her as, anyway.
Most kids my age don't think that way apparently though but after observing my friends' "relationships" I have come to one conclusion:

You'll get over it

Signed,
rufflebee

Last edited by rufflebee (2011-04-28 22:00:52)

SpriteMaster wrote:

bananaman114 wrote:

And she is a year older than me.

Then you got no chance.

that's not true

Sunrise-Moon wrote:

veggieman001 wrote:

SpriteMaster wrote:

Then you got no chance.

that's not true

Yeah. In middle school, there's either height differences or maturity differences between grades.

height matters?
and at least at my school, there isn't really. however, my school is a bit different because we have 7th and 8th in the same class, for the whole day.

Oh, lol. About the love part. You're reminding me of myself, only I'm female.

...xD

I'm eleven years old right now, so I'm too young for love (there's a such thing as that) but last year...

...Okay.

So there's this guy. And I've actually secretly liked him for like...I dunno how long. But then, this one day last year, I just told my friend that I had a crush on him. Then, my friend's all like, "Why don't you date him, then?" And I'm all like, "Hey, good idea!"

But then we had to go inside for gym class. >_< So I never even said hi to him.  Then later that day, he purposely punches me in the face and I'm all like, "Hey! What was that for?!" And now I don't like him anymore.

And then, something similar happened this year, and I sort of surprised myself with it. BECAUSE I FELL IN LOVE WITH THE GUY WHO HAD THE IDEA OF...er............stalking some of the girls on the playground. (Some of that I will not say on Scratch. He's 12, by the way.) So then, one day when I'm running away again (yes, this is the "legendary" Huntar) he actually catches me and kisses me, and I seriously fell in love. But I got over it.

And he got in-school-suspended for kissing a girl. 

bananaman114 wrote:

Nuttlajer wrote:

Really? :c

yeah
i cant get the thought out of my head

and then i have extra stress on top of that

so basically it is driving me insane

I feel the same way about my guy, but he kinda likes me...it's hard not to get obsessed. I definitely know what you're feeling. 

Trust me, I'm a girl, so I know what girls like. If you feel insecure, or you really need help, here are some tips:

1. Say hi, when you pass her in the hallways. Smile when you do it.

2. Give her compliments--but don't overdo it so it becomes annoying or obvious. Girls love it when you notice something about their appearance (e.g. I love your shirt. That looks nice on you. (I've gotten that loads of times from my guy, and I know girls love it when guys compliment them!)

3. Start subtle conversations, with starters like "Can you help me with today's assignment? I kinda spaced out in class today."


IDK. You don't have to try these. And if all else fails, then...

Forget about her. Either choose not to go into love so early, or go chase after somebody else...the school year's almost over, and it would be awfully hard to get her!

johndo77 wrote:

KalinaStar wrote:

bananaman114 wrote:

yeah
i cant get the thought out of my head

and then i have extra stress on top of that

so basically it is driving me insane

I feel the same way about my guy, but he kinda likes me...it's hard not to get obsessed. I definitely know what you're feeling. 

Trust me, I'm a girl, so I know what girls like. If you feel insecure, or you really need help, here are some tips:

1. Say hi, when you pass her in the hallways. Smile when you do it.

2. Give her compliments--but don't overdo it so it becomes annoying or obvious. Girls love it when you notice something about their appearance (e.g. I love your shirt. That looks nice on you. (I've gotten that loads of times from my guy, and I know girls love it when guys compliment them!)

3. Start subtle conversations, with starters like "Can you help me with today's assignment? I kinda spaced out in class today."


IDK. You don't have to try these. And if all else fails, then...

Forget about her. Either choose not to go into love so early, or go chase after somebody else...the school year's almost over, and it would be awfully hard to get her!

Scratch is probably the only website where you can ask for relationship advice and get answered by a girl.

LOL!

Well, bananaman114 needs help, so...why not? At least it's from a girl's point of view...so he'll know what girls like...