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henley wrote:

Any new suggestions based on that?

a shrink.

08jackt wrote:

henley wrote:

Any new suggestions based on that?

a shrink.

I don’t get it.

Calebxy_Test wrote:

calebxy wrote:

I'm not going to wait for an answer. You're talking about someone from school, aren't you? So I'll presume you're somewhere between 12 and 15. What's the point? I mean, what are you hoping to get? So, you just like her, and want to spend time with her? And then what?wait until you're old enough to get married, and then marry her? I'm almost 100 % certain that it won't last until then. You're still a teen. Your personallity is still changhing. Why not wait until you know you can find someone who you know is right for you?

Is no one going to comment on this?

Because he likes her! It's not really his fault that he can't stop thinking about her. IMHO the sooner he acts on his feelings, the better.

fullmoon wrote:

Calebxy_Test wrote:

calebxy wrote:

I'm not going to wait for an answer. You're talking about someone from school, aren't you? So I'll presume you're somewhere between 12 and 15. What's the point? I mean, what are you hoping to get? So, you just like her, and want to spend time with her? And then what?wait until you're old enough to get married, and then marry her? I'm almost 100 % certain that it won't last until then. You're still a teen. Your personallity is still changhing. Why not wait until you know you can find someone who you know is right for you?

Is no one going to comment on this?

Because he likes her! It's not really his fault that he can't stop thinking about her. IMHO the sooner he acts on his feelings, the better.

You right. It's not his fault. But if we all acted on our feelings as soon they emerge, then what good could come from that? My advice is to let your feelings and personality level out before you try and find someone you want to be with.

EmperorEvil wrote:

Calebxy, knock it off. It's not like he wants to marry the kid.

btw Henley ignore that calebxy guy

Messing with peoples feelings if fun, is it? It's all just for fun is it? Kissing, go out with each other, all that with no intention whatsoever to take it any further is just innocent little fun, is it? It's no fun when one person is taking it seriously and the other one isn't. But, if you say so. You're obviously a lot more mature than me.

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fullmoon wrote:

Calebxy_Test wrote:

EmperorEvil wrote:

Calebxy, knock it off. It's not like he wants to marry the kid.

btw Henley ignore that calebxy guy

Messing with peoples feelings if fun, is it? It's all just for fun is it? Kissing, go out with each other, all that with no intention whatsoever to take it any further is just innocent little fun, is it? It's no fun when one person is taking it seriously and the other one isn't. But, if you say so. You're obviously a lot more mature than me.

Love hurts, but if people avoided starting relationships that aren't guaranteed to last forever, no one would be here right now. There's no better way I can think of to find the person for you than to go out and try. 

Most people aren't here because children went out with each other. It's when they married, that causes it. And it would be so much better to try and find someone who's right for you after you're past your immature youth (that would most likely only lead to heartbreak). So, that would be when you're actually old enough to marry.

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EmperorEvil wrote:

Calebxy_Test wrote:

Most people aren't here because children went out with each other. It's when they married, that causes it. And it would be so much better to try and find someone who's right for you after you're past your immature youth (that would most likely only lead to heartbreak). So, that would be when you're actually old enough to marry.

Dating is the road up to marriage. Starting early has the advantage of developing skills for later when marrying is an option.\

Be cool, man!

+1.

I'd want my wife to have previous experience, so she's not learning it on the spot.

henley wrote:

08jackt wrote:

henley wrote:

Any new suggestions based on that?

a shrink.

I don’t get it.

exactly

Alternatives wrote:

The brain simulates the emotion we call love, therefore being "In Love" with someone will only lead to a broken heart, because its temporary. But loving someone, being past the "In Love" stage, thats what leads to true love.

Who knew uncle Alternatives could be so deep?

PS. This is aimed at Calebxy.

Umm... and?

Showing compassion for someone just so you can have experience is not a kind thing to do. It's like a child who plays with a new toy and then soon after discards it. Basically: crule

Alternatives wrote:

Calebxy_Test wrote:

Alternatives wrote:

The brain simulates the emotion we call love, therefore being "In Love" with someone will only lead to a broken heart, because its temporary. But loving someone, being past the "In Love" stage, thats what leads to true love.

Who knew uncle Alternatives could be so deep?

PS. This is aimed at Calebxy.

Umm... and?

Showing compassion for someone just so you can have experience is not a kind thing to do. It's like a child who plays with a new toy and then soon after discards it. Basically: crule

But that also gives said person experience. But thats not the point. Sometimes you have to take risks, or you will never find your significant other.

We're obviously not going to convince each other, so I'll stop trying. But I'll leave you with this fact: Couples who marry under the age of 20 are likely to get a divorce within five years. Have a guess as to why that is. 

Alternatives wrote:

True, but there are also the odd ones out. My grandparents married when granddad was 19 and grandma was 18.
Granddad is 64, and grandma is 66. They are still married and as in love as ever 

But you do have a good point 

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Calebxy_Test wrote:

Alternatives wrote:

Who knew uncle Alternatives could be so deep?

Don't you think I'm deep?

Nope.