Okay so theres this girl I like (im around 12...) And she doesn't know! I don't know what to say cuz kids at mah middle skool are serious about dating and if word gets out it could turn REALLY BAD! Trust me some people are so immature. Anyway what do I do! Don;t post any stupid comments about this kinda stuff...
Were friends but she hangs out with a guy ALOT but their not dating and the guy is my friend...If it goes good I might tell you who she is
She has an account on youtube..
Also we had a really bad argument last year but now were both over it...
PLEASE HELP!
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My best advice would be to take no advice. Everyone is different and there is no foolproof advice you can give to any specific situation.
My second bit of advice would be to search on a place better suited to such inquiries if you're deadset on getting advice.

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I wouldn't come to Scratch for advice.
We're the humble home of soon-to-be programming nerds.
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soupoftomato wrote:
I wouldn't come to Scratch for advice.
We're the humble home of soon-to-be programming nerds.
Hey, some of us have social lives! Anyway, my advice: Wait. Don't date a girl because you like her and you're only 12. Dating is actually really dumb, because 95% of the time, it's just for status and you'll probably only make a fool of yourself. You can tell her you like her, but really, the best thing is to let it fly. Being friends is a whole lot easier than being girl/boyfriends. When you're older, maybe you should start dating, but I would wait, definitely.
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soupoftomato wrote:
I wouldn't come to Scratch for advice.
We're the humble home of soon-to-be programming nerds.
No. Some of us aren't nerds
So my advice... well, don't do anything rash. That's about all I can say, because there's no easy solution that works for every relationship puzzle.
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Ace-Of-Diamonds wrote:
Seeing as no girls have posted for almost half an hour after you posted that, I'm guessing tall hats don't really work
Nah, just kidding. Hats do seem to help. Just not dorky ones like that. Baseball caps. And hats aren't allowed in most schools anyway. That's why I take advantage of my outside travel time between classes
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You dare call my hat dorky?
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antimonyarsenide wrote:
Ace-Of-Diamonds wrote:
Seeing as no girls have posted for almost half an hour after you posted that, I'm guessing tall hats don't really work
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Nah, just kidding. Hats do seem to help. Just not dorky ones like that. Baseball caps. And hats aren't allowed in most schools anyway. That's why I take advantage of my outside travel time between classes![]()
Yeah, in my school, we could only wear hats on "hat week" where we can pay $1 per day to wear our hats.
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Ace-Of-Diamonds wrote:
You dare call my hat dorky?
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Yes, I do.
Though I admire your choice of hat coloring, if that is indeed you.
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emilypie wrote:
antimonyarsenide wrote:
Ace-Of-Diamonds wrote:
Seeing as no girls have posted for almost half an hour after you posted that, I'm guessing tall hats don't really work
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Nah, just kidding. Hats do seem to help. Just not dorky ones like that. Baseball caps. And hats aren't allowed in most schools anyway. That's why I take advantage of my outside travel time between classes![]()
Yeah, in my school, we could only wear hats on "hat week" where we can pay $1 per day to wear our hats.
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You had to PAY?!!
We had a hat day every year in middle school. Free of charge.
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Ace-Of-Diamonds wrote:
it all depends on what the lady in the back is thinking. if she's thinking "omg, that guy's HAWT!" then that hat is cool, if she's thinking "wow, what a dork." then it is definitely dorky.
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AtomicBawm3 wrote:
soupoftomato wrote:
I wouldn't come to Scratch for advice.
We're the humble home of soon-to-be programming nerds.Hey, some of us have social lives! Anyway, my advice: Wait. Don't date a girl because you like her and you're only 12. Dating is actually really dumb, because 95% of the time, it's just for status and you'll probably only make a fool of yourself. You can tell her you like her, but really, the best thing is to let it fly. Being friends is a whole lot easier than being girl/boyfriends. When you're older, maybe you should start dating, but I would wait, definitely.
+1.
Why do you date someone? To learn more about them and see if you think you might get married to them someday. No offense, but it's highly improbable that you will get married to this girl someday.
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antimonyarsenide wrote:
emilypie wrote:
antimonyarsenide wrote:
Seeing as no girls have posted for almost half an hour after you posted that, I'm guessing tall hats don't really work![]()
Nah, just kidding. Hats do seem to help. Just not dorky ones like that. Baseball caps. And hats aren't allowed in most schools anyway. That's why I take advantage of my outside travel time between classes![]()
Yeah, in my school, we could only wear hats on "hat week" where we can pay $1 per day to wear our hats.
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You had to PAY?!!
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We had a hat day every year in middle school. Free of charge.
yeah. girls don't wear hat's anyway, so i don't care.
anyway, how did a conversation about dating turn into a conversation about hats? point is: take it from a girl, hats do not influence the boys we like. period.
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emilypie wrote:
antimonyarsenide wrote:
emilypie wrote:
Yeah, in my school, we could only wear hats on "hat week" where we can pay $1 per day to wear our hats.![]()
You had to PAY?!!
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We had a hat day every year in middle school. Free of charge.yeah. girls don't wear hat's anyway, so i don't care.
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anyway, how did a conversation about dating turn into a conversation about hats? point is: take it from a girl, hats do not influence the boys we like. period.
I guess we were stating our opinions about Ace's advice.
Then what do girls care about most? Hair color?
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Your 12? Dating in my school is just as serious and I'm only a year younger then you.
It is kinda stupid to be dating at your age, don't worry. Like they said earlier, just be friends, not boyfriend and girlfriend.
And if you REALLY wanna date, I can't stop you. You guys kinda want to slowly develop your relationship, don't say "I love you" out of nowhere during a recess time.
Find out what she likes, and find out what you have in common. This also helps. And, I'm pretty sure but not completely sure about this one, but be yourself.
But don't be stupid and immature. A sense of humor is good, just not stupid-like.
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antimonyarsenide wrote:
emilypie wrote:
antimonyarsenide wrote:
You had to PAY?!!
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We had a hat day every year in middle school. Free of charge.yeah. girls don't wear hat's anyway, so i don't care.
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anyway, how did a conversation about dating turn into a conversation about hats? point is: take it from a girl, hats do not influence the boys we like. period.I guess we were stating our opinions about Ace's advice.
Then what do girls care about most? Hair color?![]()
Eye color and packs. Trust me. Like all the girls in my neighborhood call me pretty eyes and like to feel on my packs xD It's creepy
Lolol. Btw Ace I would totally wear that hat.
EDIT: For some real advise, don't date at 12. It's most of the time for status and more than 90% of couples break up for another girl/boy. It's dumb and you can get... Stuff...
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You realize you're asking for advice on getting girls at a programming forum...and one that's barely even focused on programming these days, at that.
Anyway, my advice would be to leave it for now. You're 12. You have lots of time. Just stay friends and let that develop slowly.
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HURP DERP LOL DATING HURR OLOLOLOL. No, seriously now, I have nothing for you, I don't care about girls or relationships that much, thus I have no advice. Sadly I go to a school where if you say something like that without properly explaining and making sure people don't think you are what they will call you if you don't you are called gay.

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steppenwulf wrote:
antimonyarsenide wrote:
emilypie wrote:
yeah. girls don't wear hat's anyway, so i don't care.![]()
anyway, how did a conversation about dating turn into a conversation about hats? point is: take it from a girl, hats do not influence the boys we like. period.I guess we were stating our opinions about Ace's advice.
Then what do girls care about most? Hair color?![]()
Eye color and packs. Trust me. Like all the girls in my neighborhood call me pretty eyes and like to feel on my packs xD It's creepy
Lolol. Btw Ace I would totally wear that hat.
EDIT: For some real advise, don't date at 12. It's most of the time for status and more than 90% of couples break up for another girl/boy. It's dumb and you can get... Stuff...
O____O all you boys don''t get it! girls like boys that don't care about dating. don't ever mention it, pretend you hardly know what dating is! just act like a nice little boy, who has a friend, that just-so-happens to be a girl. then she'll fall for you.
but seriously, like steppenwulf said, don't date at 12. if you do you will be a laughing stalk of the school, and the girl will hate you. i'm 12 too, and i would NEVER confess to the boy i like. if i were you, i'd wait until 8th grade. just be friends until then, and she will love you. then you can start dating. just don't date now, or else you might not have any more friends...especially girl ones.
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emilypie wrote:
steppenwulf wrote:
antimonyarsenide wrote:
I guess we were stating our opinions about Ace's advice.
Then what do girls care about most? Hair color?![]()
Eye color and packs. Trust me. Like all the girls in my neighborhood call me pretty eyes and like to feel on my packs xD It's creepy
Lolol. Btw Ace I would totally wear that hat.
EDIT: For some real advise, don't date at 12. It's most of the time for status and more than 90% of couples break up for another girl/boy. It's dumb and you can get... Stuff...O____O all you boys don''t get it! girls like boys that don't care about dating. don't ever mention it, pretend you hardly know what dating is! just act like a nice little boy, who has a friend, that just-so-happens to be a girl. then she'll fall for you.
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but seriously, like steppenwulf said, don't date at 12. if you do you will be a laughing stalk of the school, and the girl will hate you. i'm 12 too, and i would NEVER confess to the boy i like. if i were you, i'd wait until 8th grade. just be friends until then, and she will love you. then you can start dating. just don't date now, or else you might not have any more friends...especially girl ones.![]()
...I thought there was something wrong with the world...

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PW132 wrote:
HURP DERP LOL DATING HURR OLOLOLOL. No, seriously now, I have nothing for you, I don't care about girls or relationships that much, thus I have no advice. Sadly I go to a school where if you say something like that without properly explaining and making sure people don't think you are what they will call you if you don't you are called gay.
Run-on sentence... Couldn't decipher... restatement, please?
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