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#26 2010-08-01 09:08:16

BlackMarket
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

This is good for users who are going through this  smile

But...do you really think TROLLS could make the whole community quit? Trolls just make me laugh.


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#27 2010-08-01 12:47:46

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

none of those work, i've tried. my first user sucked and I don't want to make another one so what can I do?

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#28 2010-08-01 21:33:13

emilypie
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Shadowstarwarrior wrote:

none of those work, i've tried. my first user sucked and I don't want to make another one so what can I do?

Hmm, well, if it is too hard to ignore, try quitting for a little while, like maybe a month or something. the person who's bullying you will get tired of waiting, and move onto someone else. when you come back, they will probably not really notice.  smile


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#29 2010-08-01 21:35:19

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Ace-of-Spades wrote:

Blade-Edge wrote:

No bully is that persistent. Only trolls are that persistent.
@Ace, is that what you did?

You've found my horrible secret! I was originally the person known as.. well I'm not going to say it, but I'm the person at the top of Juststickman's old account's friend list.

Hey ace, you aren't me.


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#30 2010-08-01 21:47:48

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Your supposed to LAUGH at them. You are seriously a TOTAL WIMP if you cry and quit because a guy ON THE INTERNET. Or IGNORE them, or TROLL them back, find his/her weakness AND MAKE HIM/HER CRY WITH YOUR TROLLING. THATS RIGHT, YOU FOUGHT BACK, YOU ARE COOL.

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#31 2010-08-01 21:49:30

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

emilypie wrote:

I'm not sure if this is the right topic for this post, but here goes nothing!

Recently, there has been a  lot of scratchers quitting because of cyber bullying. I have counted 6 people quitting, or planning on quitting, between last Tuesday and today. I'm not mentioning any names, because I'd rather not start some sort of argument.  wink

PLEASE do not add to these people! Quitting because of bullying is a LAST RESORT. Here are some tips to help you deal with cyber bullying:

-Putting them on your ignore list is not always the best answer.  If they DO continue to post bad things about you, even if you flagged their first comment that was being mean to you, you might want to see what else they post so you can keep flagging them (if it's for the right reason).

-Ignore the first bullet point! Well, not totally.  Whatever you think is best. If you get very sensitive when you see a mean comment, and would rather just ignore them then make sure they don't do anything else mean, put them on your ignore list. :3

-If it is just ONE person bullying you, and they do it all the time and don't stop, report the user in the Contact Us.

-Don't feel too bad if you are being bullied. If someone is being mean to you, they are probably just a mean person, and, chances are, they are mean to other people too, and your not the only one.  smile

-If MULTIPLE people are bullying you, you are probably just letting it get to you. If you get a comment by one person saying "it sucks" or something, that's not really bullying. you can flag it if you want, but that is not like saying "it sucks" on ALL your projects, then THAT'S bullying. If it is a DIFFERENT person saying "it sucks" on each of your projects, don't be too offended because the particular person who said your project sucks, just dislikes that topic, and is expressing it in a not nice way, and it is just multiple people doing that, and it just happens that it is you.

-Don't quit because of bullying. That's what the bully is trying to do. Don't let them win. If you let them win, then once your done with, they will move to someone else, and that will keep happening until the whole community quits! Be strong and don't let them win! >:3

-Don't think that you should leave because you are being bullied by multiple people. Don't think everyone hates you. When you REALLY think about it, only PART of the community is bullying you, and the people who like you CERTAINLY outnumbers the people who don't.  smile

-If someone says "it sucks" and they don't even say why, don't reply and say "HOW COULD YOU SAY THAT?!?! YOU DON'T EVEN HAVE A REASON!!!" reply, politely something like, "That is your opinion. I don't see why you think that though. I worked hard on this. Could you please explain to me why you think that, so that i may make it better?' If they reply something like "it just sucks." Then, you can flag them, if they say something like "Oh, I'm sorry, i just don't like this topic." Then I would be nice and not flag them.  smile

-If ONE PERSON is bullying you, don't let the ONE PERSON ruin your scratch life.  smile

-If nothing works, just ignore it, PLEASE just ignore it! Ignore the bullies, ignore the hate mail, ignore the mean comments, just ignore it.

-If you are REALLY sensitive to this kind of thing, and just CAN'T ignore it, make a new account, and don't tell people who you really are. You can start your whole scratch life over.  smile

-If, NOTHING works, and you REALLY can't ignore it, and the bully figures out who you are on your new account, and FOR SOME REASON scratch won't ban them after they are mean to you constantly, then you can quit. But, I'm sure if they are mean enough to make you quit, scratch will ban them anyway (AS LONG AS YOU'VE BEEN FLAGGING THEIR COMMENTS!) so, PLEASE DON'T QUIT BECAUSE OF CYBER BULLYING!!!

I hope i helped!  tongue

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#32 2010-08-01 23:21:43

emilypie
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

half_life_2 wrote:

Your supposed to LAUGH at them. You are seriously a TOTAL WIMP if you cry and quit because a guy ON THE INTERNET. Or IGNORE them, or TROLL them back, find his/her weakness AND MAKE HIM/HER CRY WITH YOUR TROLLING. THATS RIGHT, YOU FOUGHT BACK, YOU ARE COOL.

Well, what i am trying to say is NOT to cry and quit over it, but your shouldn't fight back either. fighting back always causes problems, and can get you in trouble. just report the user, or do any of the other things i said. you should never fight back, and you should never sink down to levels as low as the bully. That just makes you a bully to them.  hmm


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#33 2010-08-01 23:30:56

emilypie
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

BlackMarket wrote:

This is good for users who are going through this  smile

But...do you really think TROLLS could make the whole community quit? Trolls just make me laugh.

Well, i was just exaggerating there.  lol  but, yeah. i didn't use the word "trolls" in it, because there are a lot of younger users who don't know what that means.  hmm


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#34 2010-08-02 01:12:38

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

juststickman wrote:

Ace-of-Spades wrote:

Blade-Edge wrote:

No bully is that persistent. Only trolls are that persistent.
@Ace, is that what you did?

You've found my horrible secret! I was originally the person known as.. well I'm not going to say it, but I'm the person at the top of Juststickman's old account's friend list.

Hey ace, you aren't me.

I don't recall saying I was >:])


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#35 2010-08-02 01:13:57

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

BlackMarket wrote:

This is good for users who are going through this  smile

But...do you really think TROLLS could make the whole community quit? Trolls just make me laugh.

There's a difference between Trolls and Bullies


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#36 2010-08-02 01:59:30

juststickman
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Ace-of-Spades wrote:

juststickman wrote:

Ace-of-Spades wrote:

You've found my horrible secret! I was originally the person known as.. well I'm not going to say it, but I'm the person at the top of Juststickman's old account's friend list.

Hey ace, you aren't me.

I don't recall saying I was >:])

My old account's top friend list person is me.


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#37 2010-08-02 02:09:43

Ace-of-Spades
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

juststickman wrote:

Ace-of-Spades wrote:

juststickman wrote:


Hey ace, you aren't me.

I don't recall saying I was >:])

My old account's top friend list person is me.

How can we be sure of that.. link to your old account and let us see for ourselves >:}


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