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#1 2010-07-27 14:15:13

emilypie
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What to do if Someone is Bullying You

I'm not sure if this is the right topic for this post, but here goes nothing!

Recently, there has been a  lot of scratchers quitting because of cyber bullying. I have counted 6 people quitting, or planning on quitting, between last Tuesday and today. I'm not mentioning any names, because I'd rather not start some sort of argument.  wink

PLEASE do not add to these people! Quitting because of bullying is a LAST RESORT. Here are some tips to help you deal with cyber bullying:

-Putting them on your ignore list is not always the best answer.  If they DO continue to post bad things about you, even if you flagged their first comment that was being mean to you, you might want to see what else they post so you can keep flagging them (if it's for the right reason).

-Ignore the first bullet point! Well, not totally.  Whatever you think is best. If you get very sensitive when you see a mean comment, and would rather just ignore them then make sure they don't do anything else mean, put them on your ignore list. :3

-If it is just ONE person bullying you, and they do it all the time and don't stop, report the user in the Contact Us.

-Don't feel too bad if you are being bullied. If someone is being mean to you, they are probably just a mean person, and, chances are, they are mean to other people too, and your not the only one.  smile

-If MULTIPLE people are bullying you, you are probably just letting it get to you. If you get a comment by one person saying "it sucks" or something, that's not really bullying. you can flag it if you want, but that is not like saying "it sucks" on ALL your projects, then THAT'S bullying. If it is a DIFFERENT person saying "it sucks" on each of your projects, don't be too offended because the particular person who said your project sucks, just dislikes that topic, and is expressing it in a not nice way, and it is just multiple people doing that, and it just happens that it is you.

-Don't quit because of bullying. That's what the bully is trying to do. Don't let them win. If you let them win, then once your done with, they will move to someone else, and that will keep happening until the whole community quits! Be strong and don't let them win! >:3

-Don't think that you should leave because you are being bullied by multiple people. Don't think everyone hates you. When you REALLY think about it, only PART of the community is bullying you, and the people who like you CERTAINLY outnumbers the people who don't.  smile

-If someone says "it sucks" and they don't even say why, don't reply and say "HOW COULD YOU SAY THAT?!?! YOU DON'T EVEN HAVE A REASON!!!" reply, politely something like, "That is your opinion. I don't see why you think that though. I worked hard on this. Could you please explain to me why you think that, so that i may make it better?' If they reply something like "it just sucks." Then, you can flag them, if they say something like "Oh, I'm sorry, i just don't like this topic." Then I would be nice and not flag them.  smile

-If ONE PERSON is bullying you, don't let the ONE PERSON ruin your scratch life.  smile

-If nothing works, just ignore it, PLEASE just ignore it! Ignore the bullies, ignore the hate mail, ignore the mean comments, just ignore it.

-If you are REALLY sensitive to this kind of thing, and just CAN'T ignore it, make a new account, and don't tell people who you really are. You can start your whole scratch life over.  smile

-If, NOTHING works, and you REALLY can't ignore it, and the bully figures out who you are on your new account, and FOR SOME REASON scratch won't ban them after they are mean to you constantly, then you can quit. But, I'm sure if they are mean enough to make you quit, scratch will ban them anyway (AS LONG AS YOU'VE BEEN FLAGGING THEIR COMMENTS!) so, PLEASE DON'T QUIT BECAUSE OF CYBER BULLYING!!!

I hope i helped!  tongue


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#2 2010-07-27 14:19:14

melikecheese
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

There is some good information there. I'm sure that this could help lot's of people  smile


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#3 2010-07-29 13:29:48

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

And if nothing helps, you could always pretend to quit and come back as someone else and the bullies won't bother you.


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#4 2010-07-29 13:33:14

Usatt1337
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Cyber bullying is a fancy word for trolling. Don't feed the trolls is how it works.


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#5 2010-07-29 13:33:58

Blade-Edge
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

No bully is that persistent. Only trolls are that persistent.
@Ace, is that what you did?


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#6 2010-07-29 13:35:01

MaxtheWeirdo
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Ace-of-Spades wrote:

And if nothing helps, you could always pretend to quit and come back as someone else and the bullies won't bother you.

Yes! That's a good idea. But what if you wanted some people to know your new username?

Good post, BTW. I don't really suffer from this, but it could help the ones who do suffer from it.


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#7 2010-07-29 15:24:10

Ace-of-Spades
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Blade-Edge wrote:

No bully is that persistent. Only trolls are that persistent.
@Ace, is that what you did?

You've found my horrible secret! I was originally the person known as.. well I'm not going to say it, but I'm the person at the top of Juststickman's old account's friend list.


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#8 2010-07-29 16:58:15

emilypie
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Ace-of-Spades wrote:

Blade-Edge wrote:

No bully is that persistent. Only trolls are that persistent.
@Ace, is that what you did?

You've found my horrible secret! I was originally the person known as.. well I'm not going to say it, but I'm the person at the top of Juststickman's old account's friend list.

what's his old account? O.o


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#9 2010-07-29 17:52:53

Ace-of-Spades
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

He told me not to tell anybody, so ask him yourself  big_smile


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#10 2010-07-29 17:59:18

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

http://punditkitchen.files.wordpress.com/2010/07/392ece32-ff65-4ce7-9b92-b77f832b275f.jpg

Or consult with your chicken.


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#11 2010-07-29 18:04:08

Theparadoxial
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Recently? Peope do all the time. And I'm pretty sure none of you here have seen real cyber bullying. "You stink", "Your dumb", and "You little $#%#$% dumb piece of @#$#^ im gonna $##^%$^%" Just doesn't cut it.


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#12 2010-07-29 19:03:19

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Real cyber bullying is boring to watch if you're a bystander unless it is people you know. Then when the cops show up for the death threats it turns hilarious.


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#13 2010-07-29 19:13:30

soupoftomato
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

svinnik wrote:

http://punditkitchen.files.wordpress.co … 2b275f.jpg

Or consult with your chicken.

LOL.  lol


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#14 2010-07-29 20:49:47

emilypie
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Theparadoxial wrote:

Recently? Peope do all the time. And I'm pretty sure none of you here have seen real cyber bullying. "You stink", "Your dumb", and "You little $#%#$% dumb piece of @#$#^ im gonna $##^%$^%" Just doesn't cut it.

maybe it's not as bad as some other things, but it can be hurtful to a lot of people. i only used "you suck" as an example, because i've noticed that's used very often. and yes, i know people do it all the time, but specifically in this past week it's been happening a lot.


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#15 2010-07-29 21:01:25

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

That's because of the belief that Kaj the mythical diety of cyber bullying has arisen once again. Don't ask about him, and don't mention him again or the topic might be closed.


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#16 2010-07-29 21:03:09

floatingmagictree
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

emilypie wrote:

Theparadoxial wrote:

Recently? Peope do all the time. And I'm pretty sure none of you here have seen real cyber bullying. "You stink", "Your dumb", and "You little $#%#$% dumb piece of @#$#^ im gonna $##^%$^%" Just doesn't cut it.

maybe it's not as bad as some other things, but it can be hurtful to a lot of people. i only used "you suck" as an example, because i've noticed that's used very often. and yes, i know people do it all the time, but specifically in this past week it's been happening a lot.

Because getting hurt by someone on the internet is definitely plausible. You people are safe behind a computer screen, they can't do anything to you on the internet. NO ONE'S opinion counts on the internet.

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#17 2010-07-29 21:04:36

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Ace-of-Spades wrote:

And if nothing helps, you could always pretend to quit and come back as someone else and the bullies won't bother you.

QFCT: Quoted For Cowardous Truth.


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#18 2010-07-29 21:15:59

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

DaGamez wrote:

Ace-of-Spades wrote:

And if nothing helps, you could always pretend to quit and come back as someone else and the bullies won't bother you.

QFCT: Quoted For Cowardous Truth.

Hope this doesn't start some sort of trend.


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#19 2010-07-29 21:17:50

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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Ace-of-Spades wrote:

DaGamez wrote:

Ace-of-Spades wrote:

And if nothing helps, you could always pretend to quit and come back as someone else and the bullies won't bother you.

QFCT: Quoted For Cowardous Truth.

Hope this doesn't start some sort of trend.

Knowing the IQ of the average Scratcher, it probably will.

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#20 2010-07-30 14:41:43

MagicRabbit
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Wow! Great advice! Can you join my advice group?  big_smile   http://scratch.mit.edu/galleries/view/91056


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#21 2010-07-30 15:31:34

emilypie
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

MagicRabbit wrote:

Wow! Great advice! Can you join my advice group?  big_smile   http://scratch.mit.edu/galleries/view/91056

Yeah, but meh think you typed da link wrong or somefin, it doesn't work!  yikes


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#22 2010-07-31 22:05:05

ScratchGenius7
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

emily the links never work. thx for the advice. ill ignore then

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#23 2010-07-31 22:23:08

emilypie
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

ScratchGenius7 wrote:

emily the links never work. thx for the advice. ill ignore then

what i mean by "doesn't work" is that if i copy and paste it in the URL bar, it doesn't come. and your welcome! X3


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#24 2010-08-01 07:35:25

Musicstar888
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

Hey EmilYpie can I add one onto here?????


If the bully isn't telling you things very bad, express yourself logically and politely. That's how I argue. But I don't know much about bullying online.....just only real life.


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#25 2010-08-01 08:04:37

icecreamandcake
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Re: What to do if Someone is Bullying You

svinnik wrote:

http://punditkitchen.files.wordpress.co … 2b275f.jpg

Or consult with your chicken.

LOL, consult your pet chicken. Does it work with lovebirds, because I own one? LOL, Just kidding. I knew you were kidding around with the pic.


One best thing to do for cyberbullying is to REPORT THEM. Do it by clicking Contact Us or flagging comments with rude things in it by the bully. Best things to do.


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