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imnotbob · 2011-12-06 22:16:59

Well, some of you guys may know that I'm bisexual.

Somehow, one of the girls who I've had a lot of problems with (and has a HUGE mouth) found out. She thinks it's wrong, and I'm afraid that somehow the whole school is going to find out. And I've only told my friends.

What should I do?

stevetheipad · 2011-12-06 22:25:55

Hmmmm...... As far as I see it, there's nothing wrong with this.

I can understand that it can be embarrassing to admit it, but If I were you, I would stand up and at least admit it to other kids.

If its really bugging you, I suggest you talk to your school counselor. They can be a big help.

imnotbob · 2011-12-06 22:34:11

stevetheipad wrote:
Hmmmm...... As far as I see it, there's nothing wrong with this.

I can understand that it can be embarrassing to admit it, but If I were you, I would stand up and at least admit it to other kids.

If its really bugging you, I suggest you talk to your school counselor. They can be a big help.

I'm just afraid it will go like this:

bi to lesbian (That's OK)
Lesbian to homosexual
Homosexual to transsexual

Thanks, and I go to the counselor once a week, so I'll tell him about that

CheeseMunchy · 2011-12-06 22:37:01

you don`t want anyone to find out but you`re telling us?

Earthboundjeff · 2011-12-06 22:41:59

Do you live in the south? If so, that could be bad. As I see it, you have two options:
1. Run up to her and punch her in the face
2. Talk to your friends and have them stand by you as go through these tough times. True friends will watch your back.
It's your call, General Notbob. The fate of the war resides in this decision.

stevetheipad · 2011-12-06 22:42:50

CheeseMunchy wrote:
you don`t want anyone to find out but you`re telling us?

It's different in an online setting. People don't know who you are and people are more open.

bananaman114 · 2011-12-06 22:42:56

what does bisexual mean
i don't pay attention

stevetheipad · 2011-12-06 22:44:16

imnotbob wrote:
stevetheipad wrote:
Hmmmm...... As far as I see it, there's nothing wrong with this.

I can understand that it can be embarrassing to admit it, but If I were you, I would stand up and at least admit it to other kids.

If its really bugging you, I suggest you talk to your school counselor. They can be a big help.
I'm just afraid it will go like this:

bi to lesbian (That's OK)
Lesbian to homosexual
Homosexual to transsexual

Thanks, and I go to the counselor once a week, so I'll tell him about that

No problem big_smile

I support you!

You know, I've never been to a counselor but my mom is one, so I often feel like I have one! You shouldn't be afraid to tell people you see a counselor, you should be proud of yourself for getting the help and sticking with it.

Good luck!

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imnotbob · 2011-12-06 22:53:47

bananaman114 wrote:
what does bisexual mean
i don't pay attention

It means you're attracted to both genders

bananaman114 · 2011-12-06 22:55:13

imnotbob wrote:
bananaman114 wrote:
what does bisexual mean
i don't pay attention
It means you're attracted to both genders

ok
thanks

veggieman001 · 2011-12-06 22:57:08

You can't know that that's what'll happen. It probably won't.

Earthboundjeff · 2011-12-06 23:03:00

Whatever you do make sure that you have your friends support you. As a bisexual myself, I know what it feels like to be attacked. It may sound cliche, but...
THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP.

imnotbob · 2011-12-07 18:00:01

Earthboundjeff wrote:
Whatever you do make sure that you have your friends support you. As a bisexual myself, I know what it feels like to be attacked. It may sound cliche, but...
THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP.

Yup. I have friends to back me up.
Everybody just thinks it's wrong.

CloneCommando1 · 2011-12-07 18:59:56

Despite the common belief, punching this girl in the face isn't going to solve anything. It will probably make things worse than they originally were. Violence only provokes more violence. Is there any way you can negotiate with, bribe, or blackmail this girl?

I know blackmailing sounds a bit extreme, but I've faced a problem... similar to this, annoying girl finds out about the cute girl who I had a crush on in the 1st grade and would most likely tell the whole school about it, and where open negotiations and bribery failed, blackmailing did the trick.

However, I do suggest trying to negotiate or bribe before blackmailing, as it is a last resort and blackmailing results will vary.

Oh, and uh, I wouldn't do this alone either.

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spongebob123 · 2011-12-07 19:30:51

._. I'm heterosexual, but I can relate with you, as in my old school I was bullied because of my religion. If your parents know, then tell them about this girl - I'm sure they'd help. As someone else said, a school counselor may help you as well.

If all else fails and you're bullied because of this, then think about how these bullying kids are probably going to FAIL in life later. hmm That worked for me..Or you can go to homeschool/cyberschool, where you basically sit at home and can't get bullied. smile

echs · 2011-12-07 21:54:52

imnotbob wrote:
Earthboundjeff wrote:
Whatever you do make sure that you have your friends support you. As a bisexual myself, I know what it feels like to be attacked. It may sound cliche, but...
THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP.
Yup. I have friends to back me up.
Everybody just thinks it's wrong.

It's true. I've found that as you get older you find more and more biased people. I'm in high school, and frankly, if I randomly said I was gay it would ruin my rep forever and people would always be suspicious, even though I was joking.
:I

MrMokey · 2011-12-07 21:59:04

echs wrote:
imnotbob wrote:
Earthboundjeff wrote:
Whatever you do make sure that you have your friends support you. As a bisexual myself, I know what it feels like to be attacked. It may sound cliche, but...
THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP.
Yup. I have friends to back me up.
Everybody just thinks it's wrong.
It's true. I've found that as you get older you find more and more biased people. I'm in high school, and frankly, if I randomly said I was gay it would ruin my rep forever and people would always be suspicious, even though I was joking.
:I

I my high school everyone is the same, no matter what sexual orientation. It depends on what type of high school you are at. Only some of the new grade 9s ruin the good aura by thinking they are "popular" and can pick on people. I actually emailed the VP about bullying I witnessed and complained.

veggieman001 · 2011-12-07 22:00:34

echs wrote:
imnotbob wrote:
Earthboundjeff wrote:
Whatever you do make sure that you have your friends support you. As a bisexual myself, I know what it feels like to be attacked. It may sound cliche, but...
THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP.
Yup. I have friends to back me up.
Everybody just thinks it's wrong.
It's true. I've found that as you get older you find more and more biased people. I'm in high school, and frankly, if I randomly said I was gay it would ruin my rep forever and people would always be suspicious, even though I was joking.
:I

That's funny because at my high school, nobody really cares. Though I do live in an interesting city...

Earthboundjeff · 2011-12-07 22:25:47

veggieman001 wrote:
echs wrote:
imnotbob wrote:
Yup. I have friends to back me up.
Everybody just thinks it's wrong.
It's true. I've found that as you get older you find more and more biased people. I'm in high school, and frankly, if I randomly said I was gay it would ruin my rep forever and people would always be suspicious, even though I was joking.
:I
That's funny because at my high school, nobody really cares. Though I do live in an interesting city...

Mine used to be like this. What do you get when you cross already extreme bullies with conservative ideals?
MISERY.
So I changed schools. Now, keep in mind I was still in the closet at the time, but looking back it's a life saver, maybe even literally! ,_.

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jackrulez · 2011-12-07 22:42:33

Just run through the halls shouting, "I'm bisexual!!!" People will think you're joking and shrug it off.

Earthboundjeff · 2011-12-07 22:54:44

You know, that just might be crazy enough
TO GET US ALL KILLED

imnotbob · 2011-12-07 22:59:57

Earthboundjeff wrote:
You know, that just might be crazy enough
TO GET US ALL KILLED

Or worse, SUSPENDED :OOO

veggieman001 · 2011-12-07 23:01:37

imnotbob wrote:
Earthboundjeff wrote:
You know, that just might be crazy enough
TO GET US ALL KILLED
Or worse, SUSPENDED :OOO

lolhermione

imnotbob · 2011-12-07 23:01:57

veggieman001 wrote:
imnotbob wrote:
Earthboundjeff wrote:
You know, that just might be crazy enough
TO GET US ALL KILLED
Or worse, SUSPENDED :OOO
lolhermione

lol yup

-iNetMaster- · 2011-12-07 23:43:33

when this happens, i carry around a knife in my shoe wherever i go, and anyone who tries to hurt me get threatened.
or you have to get a reputition of hurting people. then theyll leave you alone.

im serious.

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