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zbugni · 2012-01-03 20:08:47

Man, I hate this kinda friend. I have a few of 'em. Especially one who is actually my friend's friend (who he doesn't like either.) I can't be mean to him 'cause our moms our close and last time i did he emailed me "you're mean" 255 times and called me a meanie pants. Derp. Also, my friend, the REAL friend, goes to the same school as him and after I told him I didn't like him, he cried at school for like two weeks and really annoyed my friend.
Did that make any sense? I was just ranting. Anyway, I don't have any solutions, but thanks guys for posting some. I'm reading em now.

AnimeCreatorArtist · 2012-01-03 20:09:19

My friend is sort of like this. I continue to be a real friend to him, because it seems everybody else hates him. He is never silent. He taps his pencil all the time and doesn't know how or when to be quiet. We're almost nothing alike either.
But, I have discovered that my limit as to how much I can take of him, is much greater than that of anybody else's.....

-_-
Try to teach him to become a more mature, likeable person.

undefeatedgames · 2012-01-03 20:10:15

henley wrote:
undefeatedgames wrote:
henley wrote:
Tell his mom that you aren’t comfortable around his son.

Tell his mom what makes you uncomfortable about being around him.

That’s how I got out of a friendship, and two relationships.
Yeah, but his Mom would be very mad at me that I don't want to be friends with her son.
Oh... She's THAT kind of mom. I know what you mean.

You should just try and keep your distance from him, and ignore him. Don't laugh at any of his jokes, and just avoid him. Sooner or later, he'll go away.

Drop the friendship slowly, act as if you are uninterested in anything he says, and whatever you do, don't look at anything he tells you to. Just take it slow and easy, and you will go from having a friendship, into having an acquaintanceship in about a week to a month. If he's really "clingy" it could take two months.

And also tell him I don't want to do whatever he wants to do (pretty much).

Friend: Want to play Mario?
ME: No thanks, I don't like Mario anymore. It's for young kids.
Friend: Oh. You want to watch Youtube?
ME: I usually don't like the videos you want to watch on Youtube.

etc.

ImagineIt · 2012-01-03 20:14:21

undefeatedgames wrote:
I am mature, and he acts like he is 10 (no offense to those who are 10)

Not helping. mad

henley · 2012-01-03 20:15:08

undefeatedgames wrote:
henley wrote:
undefeatedgames wrote:

Yeah, but his Mom would be very mad at me that I don't want to be friends with her son.
Oh... She's THAT kind of mom. I know what you mean.

You should just try and keep your distance from him, and ignore him. Don't laugh at any of his jokes, and just avoid him. Sooner or later, he'll go away.

Drop the friendship slowly, act as if you are uninterested in anything he says, and whatever you do, don't look at anything he tells you to. Just take it slow and easy, and you will go from having a friendship, into having an acquaintanceship in about a week to a month. If he's really "clingy" it could take two months.
And also tell him I don't want to do whatever he wants to do (pretty much).

Friend: Want to play Mario?
ME: No thanks, I don't like Mario anymore. It's for young kids.
Friend: Oh. You want to watch Youtube?
ME: I usually don't like the videos you want to watch on Youtube.

etc.

Just like that!

undefeatedgames · 2012-01-03 20:34:08

ImagineIt wrote:
undefeatedgames wrote:
I am mature, and he acts like he is 10 (no offense to those who are 10)
Not helping.

I mean, he is 13 and he acts like that.
It's fine to act like 10 if you are 11 or under.

10's a good age. I wasn't saying acting like 10 is bad. I was saying that acting like 10 when you are 13 is very immature.

rabbit1131 · 2012-01-03 20:35:09

Psychological help from: The Misc Forum
Tell him.

undefeatedgames · 2012-01-03 20:37:49

rabbit1131 wrote:
Psychological help from: The Misc Forum
Tell him.

lol

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