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Tell the principal, then write angry swearing poetry about all the things you want to do to his face. Then, delete it or throw it away. That way, he gets in trouble AND you get your anger out.

Animeboy975 wrote:

Today at lunch, me and my friend sat down. Than this boy came and sat near us. He bullied me, and told me to "GET OUT!!!!!!!!" at me. I didn't cry right here, but i did later (right now.)

What should i do? Tell the principal? Discuss.

Yes, you should tell the principal. Alternatively, any trusted adult will do, such as a teacher, a parent, guidance counselor, etc.

Here's two good websites on bullying and how to approach it:
situation:http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/problems/bullies.html
http://kidshealth.org/kid/feeling/emotion/bullies.html

Last edited by cheddargirl (2011-12-09 15:40:43)

cheddargirl wrote:

Animeboy975 wrote:

Today at lunch, me and my friend sat down. Than this boy came and sat near us. He bullied me, and told me to "GET OUT!!!!!!!!" at me. I didn't cry right here, but i did later (right now.)

What should i do? Tell the principal? Discuss.

Um, yes, you should tell the principal. Alternatively, any trusted adult will do, such as a teacher, a parent, guidance counselor, etc.

I told my mom.

VanillaCreme wrote:

Animeboy975 wrote:

Today at lunch, me and my friend sat down. Than this boy came and sat near us. He bullied me, and told me to "GET OUT!!!!!!!!" at me. I didn't cry right here, but i did later (right now.)

What should i do? Tell the principal? Discuss.

im like that, im very very senitive about my feelings. i would have just ingored him if he yelled at me and moved to another table like he wasn't there. all that bullies look for is a reaction    and i would have telled a principal. plus i would tell my parents. don't be afraid to, thats just the more mature thing to do than to hide it from them. 

I'm sensitive too. Thanks.

Don't let them get to you, karma will come and get the bullies.
I know from experience that 90% of advice adults isn't useful, so try just shouting back or refusing to move. They'll get sick of it eventually.
Source: I've been yelled at by the same stupid girl 3 english lessons in a row. She accuses me of 'staring at her' so that means I'm not allowed to look to the right of me, else I'll be 'staring at her'. :L At first I ignored her, but last time I just yelled back. It was reassuring that the teacher sided with me and the people I though liked the bully sided with me too! She is truly pathetic >.< Not to mention that I wouldn't want to stare at her ugly face anyway! XD

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Don't let them get to you, karma will come and get the bullies.
I know from experience that 90% of advice adults isn't useful, so try just shouting back or refusing to move. They'll get sick of it eventually.
Source: I've been yelled at by the same stupid girl 3 english lessons in a row. She accuses me of 'staring at her' so that means I'm not allowed to look to the right of me, else I'll be 'staring at her'. :L At first I ignored her, but last time I just yelled back. It was reassuring that the teacher sided with me and the people I though liked the bully sided with me too! She is truly pathetic >.< Not to mention that I wouldn't want to stare at her ugly face anyway! XD

This is exactly right. I was bullied every day for a solid year when I was like 9, and came home crying everyday. The only advice I ever got from the teachers was "Just ignore them and walk away". I mean, that NEVER works, and the bully never even got spoken to! 

Last edited by RedRocker227 (2011-12-09 15:29:30)

RedRocker227 wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Don't let them get to you, karma will come and get the bullies.
I know from experience that 90% of advice adults isn't useful, so try just shouting back or refusing to move. They'll get sick of it eventually.
Source: I've been yelled at by the same stupid girl 3 english lessons in a row. She accuses me of 'staring at her' so that means I'm not allowed to look to the right of me, else I'll be 'staring at her'. :L At first I ignored her, but last time I just yelled back. It was reassuring that the teacher sided with me and the people I though liked the bully sided with me too! She is truly pathetic >.< Not to mention that I wouldn't want to stare at her ugly face anyway! XD

This is exactly right. I was bullied every day for a solid year when I was like 9, and came home crying everyday. The only advice I ever got from the teachers was "Just ignore them and walk away". I mean, that NEVER works, and the bully never even got spoken to! 

I was bullied for five years.  No one cared, I started self harm, I was lost.  I told so many people T.T then in the last year... I was bullied by our princiapal and another teacher, as well as loads of kids >.<

RedRocker227 wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Don't let them get to you, karma will come and get the bullies.
I know from experience that 90% of advice adults isn't useful, so try just shouting back or refusing to move. They'll get sick of it eventually.
Source: I've been yelled at by the same stupid girl 3 english lessons in a row. She accuses me of 'staring at her' so that means I'm not allowed to look to the right of me, else I'll be 'staring at her'. :L At first I ignored her, but last time I just yelled back. It was reassuring that the teacher sided with me and the people I though liked the bully sided with me too! She is truly pathetic >.< Not to mention that I wouldn't want to stare at her ugly face anyway! XD

This is exactly right. I was bullied every day for a solid year when I was like 9, and came home crying everyday. The only advice I ever got from the teachers was "Just ignore them and walk away". I mean, that NEVER works, and the bully never even got spoken to! 

You probably talked back to them to feel some kind of self acomplishment. and did you ever talk to your parents?  Rule#1 DON'T tell teachers, they really could care less most of the time. they are too busy with there own problems. tell a parent or priciple.

RedRocker227 wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Don't let them get to you, karma will come and get the bullies.
I know from experience that 90% of advice adults isn't useful, so try just shouting back or refusing to move. They'll get sick of it eventually.
Source: I've been yelled at by the same stupid girl 3 english lessons in a row. She accuses me of 'staring at her' so that means I'm not allowed to look to the right of me, else I'll be 'staring at her'. :L At first I ignored her, but last time I just yelled back. It was reassuring that the teacher sided with me and the people I though liked the bully sided with me too! She is truly pathetic >.< Not to mention that I wouldn't want to stare at her ugly face anyway! XD

This is exactly right. I was bullied every day for a solid year when I was like 9, and came home crying everyday. The only advice I ever got from the teachers was "Just ignore them and walk away". I mean, that NEVER works, and the bully never even got spoken to! 

I wouldn't say that's right, from my personal experience whether or not the bullying stops depends largely on intervention to stop it.

If one adult doesn't listen, then find someone who does. The end of one of the articles I gave above in a previous comment I think explains it best: Tell someone about it and keep telling until something is done.

Blackdog100 wrote:

RedRocker227 wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

Don't let them get to you, karma will come and get the bullies.
I know from experience that 90% of advice adults isn't useful, so try just shouting back or refusing to move. They'll get sick of it eventually.
Source: I've been yelled at by the same stupid girl 3 english lessons in a row. She accuses me of 'staring at her' so that means I'm not allowed to look to the right of me, else I'll be 'staring at her'. :L At first I ignored her, but last time I just yelled back. It was reassuring that the teacher sided with me and the people I though liked the bully sided with me too! She is truly pathetic >.< Not to mention that I wouldn't want to stare at her ugly face anyway! XD

This is exactly right. I was bullied every day for a solid year when I was like 9, and came home crying everyday. The only advice I ever got from the teachers was "Just ignore them and walk away". I mean, that NEVER works, and the bully never even got spoken to! 

I was bullied for five years.  No one cared, I started self harm, I was lost.  I told so many people T.T then in the last year... I was bullied by our princiapal and another teacher, as well as loads of kids >.<

One of those things you started doing (I don't wanna get another ban for saying it) made the bullying WORSE. It made me 'the psychopathic emo kid'. ;_;
I was bullied straight from Year 2 'til Year 6, a bit in Year 7... and it still happens with the before-mentioned stupid girl... but I can deal with her and her endless whinging now c:

RedRocker227 wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

RedRocker227 wrote:

This is exactly right. I was bullied every day for a solid year when I was like 9, and came home crying everyday. The only advice I ever got from the teachers was "Just ignore them and walk away". I mean, that NEVER works, and the bully never even got spoken to! 

I know right, they said the same to me because they can't be bothered to sort it out for you. I finally cracked when I started getting kicked and beaten up. That's when I sorted out my primary school bully with a swift punch to the stomach. She fell over and starting blabbing like I had been the bad guy all along >< That ended the bullying though C:

Not great advice, but if it's not a bad punch (I just snapped and mine was VERY hard :L) I don't see the problem. It's self-defense. My mom always says she won't be mad if I get expelled/isolation for fighting IF IT'S FOR SELF DEFENSE. Letting people get the satisfaction of beating the living daylights outta you ('cause you're 'ignoring' the bullies) isn't helping you at all...

I wish I had the guts to punch them back. The problem was that there were like 5 of them, and I wouldn't even stand a chance against one 

I was scared, I just punched her because I'd actually HAD ENOUGH of her constant taunting... try sarcasm as a weapon instead? Or get your friends to protect you against them ^^;;

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

RedRocker227 wrote:

The_Dancing_Donut wrote:

I know right, they said the same to me because they can't be bothered to sort it out for you. I finally cracked when I started getting kicked and beaten up. That's when I sorted out my primary school bully with a swift punch to the stomach. She fell over and starting blabbing like I had been the bad guy all along >< That ended the bullying though C:

Not great advice, but if it's not a bad punch (I just snapped and mine was VERY hard :L) I don't see the problem. It's self-defense. My mom always says she won't be mad if I get expelled/isolation for fighting IF IT'S FOR SELF DEFENSE. Letting people get the satisfaction of beating the living daylights outta you ('cause you're 'ignoring' the bullies) isn't helping you at all...

I wish I had the guts to punch them back. The problem was that there were like 5 of them, and I wouldn't even stand a chance against one 

I was scared, I just punched her because I'd actually HAD ENOUGH of her constant taunting... try sarcasm as a weapon instead? Or get your friends to protect you against them ^^;;

The problem was my friends wouldn't exactly have the guts either. I sometimes used lame insults like "I know you are but what am I?" I know they're rubbish insults, but I couldn't think of anything else to say! XD
Anyway, I'm just glad it's stopped!

Last edited by RedRocker227 (2011-12-09 15:46:29)